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Wonder.
May 25th, 2009, 01:19 AM
There is girl that I like and I think she likes me. I am bi and I want to tell her and also ask her out. I know she does not have a problem with gay and bi people but i am still kind of nervous about what she will think. (I am friends with her.) How should I tell her and ask her out? Thanks to anyone who helps.
MARiFOX
May 25th, 2009, 02:35 AM
o-o ECCO ecco... um...never really liked anyone sry...
Wonder.
May 25th, 2009, 02:46 AM
o-o ECCO ecco... um...never really liked anyone sry...

What?
Commander Thor
May 25th, 2009, 03:01 AM
o-o ECCO ecco... um...never really liked anyone sry...

If you don't have anything helpful to say, don't post anything.

@the OP, I'd first tell her that you're bi, judge her reaction, see if she treats you any differently, give it a couple days, or a week.
Then, if she still seems to like you, and you coming out hasn't changed anything between you two, then go for it.
Wonder.
May 25th, 2009, 03:11 AM
If you don't have anything helpful to say, don't post anything.

@the OP, I'd first tell her that you're bi, judge her reaction, see if she treats you any differently, give it a couple days, or a week.
Then, if she still seems to like you, and you coming out hasn't changed anything between you two, then go for it.

Thanks! I am going to try that.
Commander Thor
May 25th, 2009, 03:16 AM
No problem bro.
Glad I could help.
Let me know how it works out. ;)
nick
May 25th, 2009, 05:31 AM
Or do it the other way round. There really is no need to tell her at all if you're worried about it, ask her out first and if it goes well wait until the time is right to tell her.

You're obviously not out too your friends (I'm bi and not out by the way) so if you do tell her you're taking the risk that she will tell other people.
guacamole24
May 25th, 2009, 06:55 AM
Or do it the other way round. There really is no need to tell her at all if you're worried about it, ask her out first and if it goes well wait until the time is right to tell her.

You're obviously not out too your friends (I'm bi and not out by the way) so if you do tell her you're taking the risk that she will tell other people.

This makes sense too.
L
May 25th, 2009, 07:09 AM
ha! seems like you've got 2 opposite opinions happening here. i personally would go with the first one. (xbox360992's) if she's that good a friend i don't think she would go around telling people would she? well i don't know her, so i guess she could be that kind of person.

thats just my two cents anyway.