Long Distance Relationships

[unidanman]

Hi
I'm 16 and the only girl i have ever liked (ive known her all my life) lives over 100 km away. i really want to ask her out but what do you do. on the odd occasion shes down here. Overnight.

my problem is that i really like her and i dont want to start another one with someone else... and everyone at school thinks im gay cos of the people i hang out with who aren't gay either

Thanks

Daniel

[tommo]

dude this is a hard one i was in the same situation and then wen i turned 16 i finally moved to her although we lived 300km apart and as soon as we lived together things fell apart it all really depends on u 2 and the only way to kow is to try

[Rutherford The Brave]

I'm telling you this, as nice as I possibly can. Long distance relationships don't work. Its basically like this, if your friends you can talk and chat over the internet and such. Yet, if you want a true relationship which includes hanging out and physically being there for each other. Well you kind of see, its hard its more difficult then a close range relationship.

[Aneklusmos]

I'm telling you this, as nice as I possibly can. Long distance relationships don't work. Its basically like this, if your friends you can talk and chat over the internet and such. Yet, if you want a true relationship which includes hanging out and physically being there for each other. Well you kind of see, its hard its more difficult then a close range relationship.

I'm going to disagree with you on this. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year and 2/12ths. I see her 7 or so times a year, and most of those are in closely-moderated environments. It's hard, that's for sure, and the stages go very slowly. But I truly love her with all my heart and i think she does too. It's the phone and Facebook that keep us in touch. However, I have had friends that have had things go horribly wrong in long distance relationships. Cheating, break-ups that were done in horrible ways. But it is possible. Most definitely possible

[doktored]

I'm telling you this, as nice as I possibly can. Long distance relationships don't work. Its basically like this, if your friends you can talk and chat over the internet and such. Yet, if you want a true relationship which includes hanging out and physically being there for each other. Well you kind of see, its hard its more difficult then a close range relationship.

This, I have friends around the world who used to live right next to me. And a ex-girlfriend in sydney. If you can't hang out with each other you have nothing to talk about so you don't talk. This destroys your relationship. IMO, long distance relationships have never, and will never, work.

[Underground_Network]

They can work, its just rare. I know a guy who fell in love with a girl who lived several states away, then she moved to the same state, just a town over, and they're still dating, and now they're physically there for each other.

But I know another guy... My best friend actually... Who fell in love with a girl several states away, visited her in the summer, had a great time, then had her break up with him over the phone several weeks later.