arrgghh confusing

[Trumpeter_2911]

this may sound really shallow i know, but, ive been dating this girl for ages, and I'm heaps comfortable of showing affection in public and completely comfortable around her, but even when we are alone anywhere really, she seems really awkward and uncomfortable and heaps hesisitant even just to hold hands, and im starting to wonder if she even cares about me because she doesnt even show that she does and all that, im really confused, can u guys give me some advice:(:what:

[Gumleaf]

don't confuse being uncomfortable with physical things and being uncomfortable about the relationship and how she feels about you. the most important part of a relationship is being able to communicate and talk to eachother about how you are feeling. i think you should ask her how she feels about physical contact and stuff. remember, communication is the key.