My Friend Asked Me This

[datrod]

Today, my friend and I hung out after school to play a game together on the computers. After an hour, he said he had to go, and I was the only person there so I decided to leave with him. While we were walking to the parking lot, he said, "Don't you need to take a piss?"
I then said to him, "No, I did a while ago, but I don't now. Alright, bye."
He said, "Wait, hold on. Take a piss with me."
I was a little bit farther away, and so it took me a little long to get to the bathroom, I saw some cigarette ashes and stuff on a toilet seat, so I just looked at all the toilets and said, "What the hell are people doing in here?" I was stalling so I didn't have to take a piss next to him. He didn't take so long, so it seems like he really didn't have to go. It took like 6 seconds tops. I went after him.
What do you think he was trying to do when he asked me this?
Do you think he was trying to see my stuff?

[Koman]

Prolly peepin at ur penis. Curiosity is a natural thing. Shoulda just said "hay man, wanna see ma dick?"

[datrod]

i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend either so ya, hes my best friend, so do u think he wants to masturbate with me or something??

[NeverTooLate]

maybe hes just curious and wants to see ur penis.

[LukeG]

Yeah, it's just curiosity and hormones. How old are you guys?

[inlove]

hmm.. lol idk.. girls do that sorta thing alot.. maybe he just didnt wanna go alone... or maybe he wanted to see your penis either way it would be a whole lot less awkward if u talked to him

[Commander Thor]

hmm.. lol idk.. girls do that sorta thing alot.. maybe he just didnt wanna go alone...

I know I'm like that. If a friend is within earshot of me, I'll ask him to go with me, I don't know what it is, I just don't like to go alone...

[datrod]

Yeah, it's just curiosity and hormones. How old are you guys?

I'm 15 and he's 14.

[datrod]

hmm.. lol idk.. girls do that sorta thing alot.. maybe he just didnt wanna go alone... or maybe he wanted to see your penis either way it would be a whole lot less awkward if u talked to him

talked to him like while we were pissing?

[MykeSoBe]

Well you shouldn't hesitate next time, unless of course you really don't want even your best friend looking at your penis. I already know what he wants to do, and it should be pretty obvious to you, no? If not, then he basically wants to "compare sizes," and it really shouldn't be much of a sweat at all.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

yeah he prob wanted to masturbate with you.. next time try to bring it out into the open. But if it isn't the case then try to be a little more suttle so you don't scare him off

[datrod]

Well you shouldn't hesitate next time, unless of course you really don't want even your best friend looking at your penis. I already know what he wants to do, and it should be pretty obvious to you, no? If not, then he basically wants to "compare sizes," and it really shouldn't be much of a sweat at all.

well hes shorter and skinnier than me, im like 6 ft. and hes like 5' 5" or shorter, hes below my shoulder, so i think he knows im bigger, and you know that saying about people who are black, im black. lol. well half, but still u get the idea. so what exactly do u think he was doing, just trying to take a peek?
Nobody ever answered this!
Do you think he wants to masturbate with me or something?
I don't know if he even masturbates, im not sure.

[datrod]

yeah he prob wanted to masturbate with you.. next time try to bring it out into the open. But if it isn't the case then try to be a little more suttle so you don't scare him off

how should i do this? and how do i bring it out in the open, should i invite him to stay the night or something?

[Bluearmy]

Now there is a good chance he did want to see your penis, maybe just to compare sizes or even, masturbate with you...

But what if he just didn't want to go in there alone? What you should do is wait a few days and kind of try to talk with him more then you ussually do, make him feel like he can admit anything to you and you won't say anything. Then if he slipps or he drives up your susspion anymore, then you have some options. But you shouldn't act like this unitl you know for sure. You don't want to end up with a very, very akward moment do you?

[datrod]

Today, my friend and I hung out after school to play a game together on the computers. After an hour, he said he had to go, and I was the only person there so I decided to leave with him. While we were walking to the parking lot, he said, "Don't you need to take a piss?"
I then said to him, "No, I did a while ago, but I don't now. Alright, bye."
He said, "Wait, hold on. Take a piss with me."
I was a little bit farther away, and so it took me a little long to get to the bathroom, I saw some cigarette ashes and stuff on a toilet seat, so I just looked at all the toilets and said, "What the hell are people doing in here?" I was stalling so I didn't have to take a piss next to him. He didn't take so long, so it seems like he really didn't have to go. It took like 6 seconds tops. I went after him.
What do you think he was trying to do when he asked me this?
Do you think he was trying to see my stuff?
i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend either so ya, hes my best friend, so do u think he wants to masturbate with me or something??
I'm 15 and he's 14.
well hes shorter and skinnier than me, im like 6 ft. and hes like 5' 5" or shorter, hes below my shoulder, so i think he knows im bigger, and you know that saying about people who are black, im black. lol. well half, but still u get the idea. so what exactly do u think he was doing, just trying to take a peek?
Do you think he wants to masturbate with me or something?
I don't know if he even masturbates, im not sure.
how should talk to him about this? and how do i bring it out in the open, should i invite him to stay the night or something?

[HOLEinyoursoul]

how should i do this? and how do i bring it out in the open, should i invite him to stay the night or something?

yeah dude thats a really good idea. invite him over and maybe put on some porn idk somethin like that. Just don't ram any sudden questions at him

[datrod]

yeah dude thats a really good idea. invite him over and maybe put on some porn idk somethin like that. Just don't ram any sudden questions at him

Give me a play by play on how I should go about all of that. Just turn it on?

[Bluearmy]

Replies this fast..you should go to the chatroom..me is ther!:eek:

You should let him disccover it, like have it minimized or something.

If he gets totally distraugted by it, just be Whoops! And turn it off.

[MykeSoBe]

well hes shorter and skinnier than me, im like 6 ft. and hes like 5' 5" or shorter, hes below my shoulder, so i think he knows im bigger, and you know that saying about people who are black, im black. lol. well half, but still u get the idea. so what exactly do u think he was doing, just trying to take a peek?
Nobody ever answered this!
Do you think he wants to masturbate with me or something?
I don't know if he even masturbates, im not sure.

Like I said, judging from how your friend wanted you to go to the bathroom with him so bad, he's just trying to tell you that yes, he does want to masturbate with you, except he probably thinks you would look at it weird if he just came out and told you. You should probably start talking about the issue more, and eventually, not only will you guys end up having the time of your lives, you guys can both be more open, honest, and trusting, especially on the more quiet subjects like this.

[The Joker]

I think he was curious to see it. He may have wanted to compare, or he was just nervous going alone.

[datrod]

I think he was curious to see it. He may have wanted to compare, or he was just nervous going alone.

why would he be nervous to go pee in a urinal by himself at his own high school? lol

[The Joker]

Some people just get nervous for some reason.

This has happened to me before, whenever I'm nervous I want someone to accompany me on everything.

[QuickQuart]

I feel like ur making a mountain out of a molehill with this. But if u really want to investigate the comparison or masturbation therories, bring it up casually. Something I sometimes say is "did u hear about so and so jacking off in class?" It sometimes sparks a conversation...

[datrod]

I feel like ur making a mountain out of a molehill with this. But if u really want to investigate the comparison or masturbation therories, bring it up casually. Something I sometimes say is "did u hear about so and so jacking off in class?" It sometimes sparks a conversation...

well idk, he seems like the type of person that will say, " Aww thats nasty!" Idk ill try it. and I dont know if theres something wrong with me, but i want to masturbate with a friend, everyone describes it as one of the best things that have happened to them, so ya.

[QuickQuart]

well idk, he seems like the type of person that will say, " Aww thats nasty!" Idk ill try it. and I dont know if theres something wrong with me, but i want to masturbate with a friend, everyone describes it as one of the best things that have happened to them, so ya.

He might say "aww nasty" but if there's anything u can learn from virtual teens's puberty forums,it's that EVERYONE masturbates. So if he says he thinks it's gross, he's lying.
And I wanna j/o with a friend, too. Just for a different experience...

[Spunky]

I just think he wanted to see u, I don't think be wanted to masturbate with you bc if he did then he would have approched it a differnt way like do you look at porn or have you ever... So I don't think he wants to do it with you just prolly wanted to take a peek. If your comfortable with it then let him but if your not then don't.

[Donkey]

Don't do anything.. he probably just didn't want to go alone for whatever reason. There is no need to do anything in this situation.

[Hoshwaa]

I agree with Donkey ^. This is a public toilet right? I wouldnt want to go into those shitholes alone.

[Leprachaun]

I think he wanted to see, just being curious

[xian]

A) get a look at your dick.
B) freaked out by what goes on in the bathroom.

[wavey]

Well at that age i dunno, i would put it out there, ask him to have a slee pover or u sleep over his as he seems more curious of you that you are of him, if you wanna experiament u go to his because him at urs might scare him outta the idea.

[CestDan]

I simple words: he wanted to see you penis. Perhaps he was shy so he didn't ask you directly but as you tell your story is the most probably.

[confusedand14]

Maybe your just making a huge deal out of nothing. I know a lot of people, like me, avoid public (especially school bathrooms) at all costs. If its a point where its unavoidable, like if you stay afterschool longer than usual, I'll ask a friend to go with me just because I don't want to go in there alone. Not becasue I want to see their dick or masturbate with them, just becasue I don't want to go in alone. And plus, your original post makes it sound like at some point you made him think that you also needed to use the bathroom.

[Fade_away_jade]

Just ask him if he wants to see your dick.

He might be curious.

Don't mind it.

Try it with him. Couldn't hurt. Doesn't mean your gay.

Besides never pass up an opportunity. :]

[JustConfused]

He just want to try something new like other boys...But,you must decide what is good for you...and good luck...