Crush, need help

[NeoKitai]

I am a virgin and I have not had a relationship ever in my life. I have a crush on a girl from the same grade, but not class, as me. I need help to get her to like me. Speaking in Russian interests her, so I think I can use that to my advantage.

[IAMWILL]

Okay then! *yells in mysterious deep voice as he floats in on a magic carpet* Hi I'm Will.

Anyway, having a crush or liking someone is always one of the great things in life, because it gives you the opportunity to have new experiences and explore new things about yourself and that person with you that you never knew or noticed. I don't think you need to be worrying about being a virgin lol, no one shouldn't be one at 13 years old! It doesn't matter really if you've had a girlfriend before either, especially considering you're thirteen, relationships don't really count before now because you don't do anything.

Getting to the advice though, I believe it is very important, when trying to make the first "move" on someone, to be honest, happy, and yourself! You never want to falsely imitate someone you aren't, because that just gives everyone the wrong idea about who you are, and you never want that. The best thing you can do here is just flirt! Nowadays, just talking about anything really is considered flirting, because you are connecting (which is a HUGE thing in relationships) with the other person. Connection and communication are the things to focus on most, because you must know one another before you can be with one another.

If she likes it when you talk to her in Russian, then why not do that every so often! I think its a nice way of saying "your special" (In a good way of course) to her. All you need to do is have happy conversations with her, and go from there.

Also, don't worry about being "ugly" (not saying that you are) or anything like that; a good girl shouldn't care about looks, its all about personality!

Remember though, the keys things here are: Connection, communication, and happiness! :)

Keep us updated too.

[NeoKitai]

I've an idea how to say "I love you" and to mix up Russian in it, I speak it fluently. It'll take a shot, since I've nothing to lose.

[IAMWILL]

Wait wait wait, don't just go up saying I love you. Maybe I like you is better for now. Good thing you have confidence though! Most boys at thirteen (and even until they're a lot older, or maybe never!) are scarred shitless when it comes to asking out a girl.

[NeoKitai]

I am not scared silly, I am just nervous, which has been replaced by irony. It's odd, but I like it.

[Oblivion]

Locking on OPs request.