Should i come out????

[Ladysman]

Ok so b4 i accepted i was bi my mom asked me if i was gay ,and i said no way she goes ,ill love u either way i said no ,im not. So now im thing about if i should tell her or my dad or both or watever but its really hard how chould i do it should i do it?? Its really hard to say it idk where my dad stands on it and the family on his side with like disown u if u dont think like they do. My parents are divorced btw but my moms side is only her and basicly my grandmother. My grandfather on my moms side died of cancer so its only them so idk if i should come out and to who and how or even when any help would b very nice tyvm

[Bluearmy]

Since your mom said she still will love you either way doesn't mean she won't be mad/upest/disgruntled by it. But perhaps it would be a good thing. She might help you get over it.

[Spunky]

To be honest if I was in your position and really thought it was time to come out then I would personaly go to your mom because it seems like she has a little more understanding and willingness to understand what you feel. But I think she may have told you that she would except it in the long run, and what I mean but that is that when you tell her she is going to act in several ways. 1 she is going to be like ok and not tell you what's going threw her mind that second or 2 she is going to flip and not talk to you for a little while till it processes in her mind what had just happened. And as for tellig your dad that's going to be the hardest because no dad ever wants to here that their son is gay. But I really don't know your dad. He could be all pissy then calm down and except it or he could not talk to you, like I said I really don't know how your dad functions. And as for the family judgeing you I would say to the hell with them if they can't accept you for who you are then you don't need them I'm your life. Also you may ask why didn't I say that about your parents, I didn't say that because you are always looking for an approval in your parents eyes (well atleast I am).
Good luck