looks

[Tenke-kun]

who thinks that all this world is about is looks, i mean, people are so fucking worried, "what should i where." I hate ewhen people worry about looks, though i guess im amitting to Hyipcracy, but i guess thats just the world im tring to fit into, i a relationship should be more about what we think of each other, sure looks can be lightly helpfull but...idk. any who, how many think that looks is more improtant.

[Silent]

I voted no :)

[too_cute_for_you]

looks help, but its not everything, for example this boy in my class...everybody likes him cause hes "hot" but hes just a jerk and everybody wants to date him...hmmm let see, marry a hot guy that leaves you and you kids, marry a guy that loves you and your child and looks good but doesnt overdo it...WOW thats a hard choice ( sarcasm )

[Bluearmy]

The only reason I voted no is because looks aren't everything.

But oh baby, it would be nice.:yummy:

[The Joker]

^Exactly.

[itsJustme89]

definitely not! Looks are nice, but a good attitude/personality goes a long way

[NeoKitai]

No. That's all I will say. Just, no.

[Ardiys]

Looks aren't everything, but the initial thing that attracts a person to you is your appearance. I'm a self-proclaimed metrosexual, I care a LOT about how I look. I think it's partially because I'm gay, and like at least 85% of the gay population is made up of extremely good looking people.
It's difficult enough knowing that I may not be accepted by my parents, but knowing that I may not be accepted by others of the same sexuality hurts a lot.

For example, I used to visit a forum only for gay teens. They'd urge us to post our pictures. I was told that I was cute, however, many other people were put down for their appearance, and even their race, which I thought was disgusting.
But it opened my eyes to how stereotypical and judgemental people can be.
Sorry for the novel <33

[ I voted no, obviously. If someone doesn't have a good personality, why would I like them? ]

[Tenke-kun]

im glad to hear that the majority of people do look at looks, but that its not everything.

thanks again guys and girls^^

[spike94]

Of course they arent, but for god sake it will help!

[pizzamon]

Obviously looks aren't everything. You have to have both looks and personality. For me since you can't change your looks your personality can help your appeal, but having an ugly personality I won't deal with.

[justateen93]

well looks are the first impresion but they arent everything

[NeverTooLate]

voted no :D

[bud2.0]

i voted no because if you think about it susan boyle is an amazing singer and she is ugly, when i had a girlfriend i liked her because of her personality, and she was an amazing girl, and smart too, and her ex-boyfriend said that she was ugly and flat chested, i thought she was pretty and i didn't notice nor did i care that she was slitly flat chested, but she filled out slightly she has small breast but i don't care at all

[Dack]

Looks really, in my opinion, arent everything. Think about it- Good looking Jerk or Fair looking and good personality?
I would pick #2 my self.

[Bluearmy]

Looks really, in my opinion, arent everything. Think about it- Good looking Jerk or Fair looking and good personality?
I would pick #2 my self.

I would slam the first one but never date her. I would slam and date the second one. And it would probably be even better than the first sine I would probably love that person..

[Dack]

Exactly my point. (Though it is steriotypical to assume this is allways true)

[Reality]

For the initial question - No looks aren't everything.

But looks are still a very important part of being attracted to someone. All people actually have the potential to look good, but they don't realize it, but someone that at least takes good care of her/his appearance is more attractive, than someone that doesn't give a damn, 9/10 times. That's excluding people who have severe deformities like Downs Syndrome, anyway, sadly. (Hate to say it)

Everybody is attracted to top models, which spend a lot of time on themselves, and metrosexual-esque men who also groom themselves well. Most of these people probably never had that much natural beauty.

But for a long-term relationship, personality is definitely the determining factor. Good looks never save anyone from breaking up with you.

So, really, both are very important.

Good looks = important for attraction
Good personality = Important for the relationship itself