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Peter_
May 18th, 2009, 02:18 PM
well, uh my friend is gonna move schools cuz shes being bullied at my (our...?) school... her brother is friends with the guy that bullies her (i know.. WTF?) and when they were at her house, the guy found her diary. he found out that she used 2 self harm (because of said bullying) and now hes gonna tell evry1. she didnt cum 2 school 2day and i think shes gonna do sumthing stupid.. i dont know who 2 tell...:confused: anyway, HELP! advice welcome!
NightFighter
May 18th, 2009, 04:40 PM
Right, if i was you then i would phone her straight away and just offer to talk.
It doesnt have to be about anything in particular she just needs to know she has you to talk to. She may bring up the conversation herself. If she does she'll need you to listen to her. She needs to trust you. Its sounds like you care for her deeply so tell her that!
Tell her she is not alone, that people care about her. Tell her that the bullies future is pretty bleak if this is what he does for pleasure. Tell her to be strong and not to give up because of the actions of that piece of crap!
I hope she will be ok.
Keep me updated? :)
Truth
May 18th, 2009, 06:47 PM
Talk to her to make sure she won't do anything stupid, and tell an adult about the bullying.
Peter_
May 19th, 2009, 11:40 AM
i cant text her or call her or anything cuz i lost my fone! i dont know how 2 contact her... she usually goes 2 this youth thing on wed that i go 2 so il try 2 talk 2 her then...
Aneklusmos
May 22nd, 2009, 08:08 AM
i cant text her or call her or anything cuz i lost my fone! i dont know how 2 contact her... she usually goes 2 this youth thing on wed that i go 2 so il try 2 talk 2 her then...

do you have a home phone? does she? do you have her number?
If you don't have any of those, I think its time you just got to her house.
Peter_
May 25th, 2009, 05:33 AM
shes fine - came 2 school that day and she seems fine.. shes a bit angry, but thats to be expected...the guy then photocopied the page and posted copies around the school. her, me and other friends had to take them down during lunch... anyway i think shes ok now.

thx 4 advice :hug:
lamboman43
May 25th, 2009, 08:07 AM
Well I'm glad she's ok. But you should tell your principle or counselor about the bully putting up those papers. That is a form of bullying and not allowed or at least shouldn't be allowed.