Im having troubles (sex)

[Gahg]

okay well iv started dating this wonderful girl and we have had sex 3 times (and iv only had sex 3 times in my life :P) but on to what my troubles are well no matter how much i try i just cant....finish i mean she finishes but i cant and i feel that this is getting in the way of our relationship because just yesterday she said that she felt not good eough because she cant make me finish. now heres some details that might help im 16 and i admit i probly masturbate more then you wash your hands but anyways iv always used porn to help me finish when i masturbate and iv read from a few diffrent places that if you watch to much porn and masturbate alot it is harder/impossible to finish when you are with a girl. i really want to know if this is my problum if it is iv already started to stop watching porn and masturbate all togeather so i just hope really hope that does it but it anyone thinks its something else please help me i really dont want to lose her over something like this


P.s if this is the wrong fourm im sorry

[Truth]

You could be so used to porn, that sex no longer will do it for you. Just stop watching it and itll get better.

[byee]

There's no truth that porn interferes with sexual performance. Rather, I suspect that it's anxiety that's interferring here.

It takes a while to feel comfortable and relaxed enough to ejaculate while inside another person, it's a very intimate, very personal thing! And, with many/most personal things, they're very emotional, it takes a while to feel comfortable with them. And, just b/c you're having sex doesn't necessarily mean that the emotional components required for sexual completion are present. So, although your body might respond Ok for a while, your brain isn't quite ready to let go.

Maybe you got a bit ahead of yourselves here by entering into a sexual relationship, and you need to take a step back from it for a while. Work on feeling close emotionally for a bit longer, let the relationship grow and develop for a while more.