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DErekd
May 17th, 2009, 11:58 PM
Its kind of a long story.
Couple of years ago i had a very tough year and its now starting to haunt me and force me to question myself.
In the seventh & 8th grades i had a very tough time with the other kids,i would be called gay(which i know is a pet peeve)and abused by most the other guys,this all lead to me to stop talking to my best friend of 9 yrs. And my curiousity to get the best of me.Entering freshman year i had felt i was straight,i had been great even through sophmore year but i still had no girlfriend:(.Over the summer i grew a huge crush on this girl i had known since feburary of that year.i never expressed my feelings and sadly a couple of months ago my best friend who had known her longer started going out with her.I was alright with it and still wanted to pursue a relationship with a girl,but then i started to question why i liked that girl,than looked back on the amount of guys i talk to compared to girls and if anything i had said or done with my old friend was gay.I than started to notice a strange feeling i got when i talked to this one guy in my class but in no way i want any relationship but i seem to have become asexual... Any advice

itsJustme89
May 18th, 2009, 12:54 AM
I think maybe you are just curious. I know it sux to get picked on at school, it happened to me a lot too, but you shouldn't let what those guys say get in your head and make you think you are gay. And even if you are, it's not the end of the world :)