Should i?

[unsuregirl]

Hey
I'm new and i have a question.
should i have sex or wait untill i'm married?

unsuregirl

[Oblivion]

Honestly, wait until you're married.
It feels good, sure, but really it's risking a lot, especially for a girl. You might get pregnant, get an STD, get caught, etc.
Is it worth it for an hour of pleasure?

[Nihilus]

My advice is wait to get married before you have sexual intercourse. As Oblivion said, you could get pregnant, get a STD (STI), or get caught and get in huge trouble. Plus sex under 18 is illegal because it's statutory rape.

[karkur]

Wait till u get married. And that's for many reasons, as the others have said.
I'm a guy and as all guys i want to have sex or at least get a girl and start playing with each others, as many of my friends do. But someone once told me something which made me change my mind. Wat he said was " u can get a girl and have fun like ur frnds do. But shouldn't it be worth waiting and doing it with ur wife (husband in ur case) or at least to do it with someone u really love (he didn't mean a crush but real love). Besides, immagine ur friends with their love and when they play with each others or have sex (specially the 1st time) and they will have the attitude "been there, done that". While u who have been waiting, will be enjoying it to the max because it will be the 1st time and with the one u love"
Just think about that for a moment, i hope u will make the right decision. :)

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

It's entirely up to you. Some people believe it's wrong to do it before marriage. Others say it's ok as long as you're in a committed relationship and using protection. Still others don't think it's a big deal as long as you're "ready". I say, don't tell yourself that you HAVE to do it a particular way. If you want to wait, that's fine. If you don't, that's cool too. No one else can decide that for you.

The important thing, in my opinion, is that you don't regret it. Be SURE that you're ready for it. Imagine the worst-case scenarios and play them out in your head, ask yourself questions. If you get pregnant, will he stand by you or will he likely run for the hills? Is he in this for more than just sex? Are you? How are you going to feel afterwards? Moving into a sexual relationship is a huge step, and you don't want to rush in too fast. If you do, you may regret it, and a bad first experience can give you a negative perception of sex. Everyone's first time is probably awkward and perhaps a little painful, but there should be no emotional pain. Fantasizing makes all of that sexual stuff glamorous, and in your fantasies you always enjoy it (of course). What fantasies don't include is the more emotional aspect, which I think is the biggest factor to consider. Don't have sex just because you're horny. It's better to have to learn a little self-control than to rush and feel bad afterwards. There are other things couples can do together besides sex, after-all.

And in response to Nihilus' comment: Statutory rape occurs when an adult has sex with a minor. As far as I know, two minors doesn't really mean much. If one partner is over 18 and the other isn't, that's when it's statutory rape and the parents of either can press charges and get the law involved. If no charges are pressed, no one gets hurt. The consequences are not as severe as something like forcible rape or date rape, because both parties were consenting, but it's still not a good thing to get involved in.

[too_cute_for_you]

well i would say wait till your married, too much of a risk. And you should do it with somebody you truly love, but its your choice

[Burton Guster]

Do what you think is right, oral is more safe.

[sam_rock1516]

both?

[swindy43]

wait till married.

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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