Am I gay or bi? (Same thread topic but longer post)

[Nik1234]

I'm very confused about my sexuality. I am a young adult and have different responses to attraction.

Sometimes, I'm rarely attracted to any sex but other times I prefer one to another. But for this past year, I've really discovered myself in terms of liking the same sex. Also, it seems I like the opposite sex less and less.

All through middle school and high school, I think I might have been tricking myself into liking girls. I had some opportunities to have sex and have kissed a lot of girls but never was motivated to have sex with them.

I don't find the stereotypical hot guys to be a turn on. Cute guys are more of an appeal for me. I can see the beauty in women but I don't really sexually desire them, even the ones I know are very sexy.

I guess I am confused because I'm not sure if I'm still tricking or repressing my feelings towards both sexes... It's hard to find what is true and what isn't.

[Ladysman]

Only u can say for sure but from wat ur saying u may b bi or it may just be puburty or maybe ur curious like i siad only u can say for sure

[nick]

I cant answer your question for you, but just wanted to say I share a lot of your feelings and confusion, although I have had (and enjoy) sex with girls. So I guess you'll have to find your own answer in time, but a bit of moral support anyway. You're not alone.

[Nik1234]

Thanks for the responses guys!

I cant answer your question for you, but just wanted to say I share a lot of your feelings and confusion, although I have had (and enjoy) sex with girls. So I guess you'll have to find your own answer in time, but a bit of moral support anyway. You're not alone.

Thanks; I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling like this. However I used to like girls but now, I've realized I might have been tricking myself the entire time. If I remember into my past, there have been so many signs but I guess I was shielding myself from my true feelings.

I know being a homosexual is a matter of choice along with psychical attraction, but I could definitely see myself in a relationship with the right guy.

I know it's strange and nobody here is a doctor or anything, but lately I've been having vivid dreams about coming out to my family. It seems the more I try to hide my feelings now, the worse I feel. I'm just extremely confused and am overanalyzing this conundrum.