what should I do????

[master man]

My GF wants me to do her but am not ready yet what do I do:confused::confused:

[Antares]

Tell her that you are not ready yet. If he still pushes you then you guys need to have a serious talk

[Iron Man]

i agree with Jupiter. do wat u feel is right.

[Silent]

I would just say this


" Honey im not ready to have sex " Somthing along those lines and if she pushes like they said you need to talk to her.

[master man]

Thanks guys

[LUCKY555]

yeah if she really liked you she would wait

[FalconSmash]

Wow. I don't know many guys who can willingly admit they aren't ready. I'm glad not all guys are sex crazed o.o

[TurboDieselBandit]

I believe in being abstinent(not having sex until u r married) so I strongly say that you should not have sex now. Even if you don't believe in abstinence, its still in your best interest not to have sex because it can easily backfire and now your GF is having a baby, there is a lot of tension,ANGER, and disappointment in both of your homes. Now you have a child who you must be devoted to by law(unless u choose adoption)for at least the next 18 years. Your dreams of traveling the world, chill'in in one of your multiple million dollar mansions after a fun day on your yacht are pretty much shot.

You only have ONE chance to live but you will have sssoooooooo many chances to have sex with the person of your dreams living the life of your dreams and the best part is you will also be ready to have a baby who will eat from a golden spoon instead on a plastic spoon because thats all his/her underage parents can afford working there McDonald's jobs 8 hours a day(thats all child labor laws allow) and some how also have time to take care of the baby. well enough of my rant.

You have ONE chance to live, will you get the most out of life and do it right or will you gamble it for a few minutes of pleasure?

PS: you can feel over half the pleasure by masturbating. Masturbate 10 times a day if you have to in order to keep you form having sex. Even that will be safer, just don't have sex till you are ready to assume the responsibility's of a father.

Sorry for the very long post :)

[FalconSmash]

I think all of that was false an can be prevented by a condom an some BCPs. And I've asked, masturbation is nothing close to sex.

[mattmattmatt]

Just let her know you're not ready. If she keeps pestering you, tell her you're not interested in a relationship that's all about sex, so get out a' Dodge.

I am a Christian and beleive in abstinence until marriage, but even religious/spiritual arguments aside, relationships that wait 'til marriage for sex go a lot better...

[nick]

Jrelationships that wait 'til marriage for sex go a lot better...
mmm, not sure where the evidence for that is.

If you don't feel ready don't do it. As other guys have said, just be honest about it and tell her that you love her but that you don't feel ready for sex just yet. If she loves you as a person and (sorry to be blunt) isnt just out to get laid then she should respect you for that.

If and when you do feel ready for it then, practice safe sex of course, but dont let other people tell you whether its right or wrong. Thats your personal choice.

[The Joker]

Agreed, there is no evidence to that. Just be straight-forward, and tell her you aren't ready. If she pushes it, then she may not be the best girl for you.

[TurboDieselBandit]

"Sex (and yes, sex was God’s idea) is no different. God created it, and therefore it is reasonable to expect that it is good. But when man distorts it by ignoring God's specific standards, it becomes harmful and destructive."

"We can choose to do things God's way, and experience the beauty of His plan, or we can choose to do things our way, and experience harm and destruction"

Author: George Martin and Scott Myers of Summit Ministries (http://www.christiananswers.net/summit/sumhome.html)
Taken From http://www.christiananswers.net/q-sum/sum-f001.html

I know this means nothing to the few of you who are atheist or whatever but regardless of your religion or morals it is in your best interest to wait. Your life's destiny is to much to gamble on the possible failure of a rubber condom, and for what? a mere 20 minutes of pleasure.