Revenge

[Leprachaun]

I don't know if I'm allowed post this anywhere but I think it should be ok to post it here.

Anyway how do I get revenge on someone who stole my school bag and pissed all over it? I'm really pissed off, all my books are wet and I want to get this bastard back!! It has to be something I can do in school.

[Gumleaf]

anything like this can be posted in the friends & family forum.

[pontiacdriver]

I don't know if I'm allowed post this anywhere but I think it should be ok to post it here.

Anyway how do I get revenge on someone who stole my school bag and pissed all over it? I'm really pissed off, all my books are wet and I want to get this bastard back!! It has to be something I can do in school.

Wow, the person in question sounds like a real jerk, and I can totally understand your desire to get even at him/her. However, before I get into the substance of your question I would firstly dispose of the school bag. Secondly, you should buy some ispropopyl (sp?) alcohol and sanitize your books and other things that were in the bag.

As for getting this person back, I am conflicted on what to tell you to do. On one side I can totally see your desire to get even with this person, but on the other there is always the potential that what you do can horribly backfire and make you in an even worse position. I think you have to look at the risk benefit of the situation of getting back at this person and ask if it is even possible to do so at school without getting yourself suspended or even expelled. Have you talked to your parents about this situation? Surprisingly, parents can sometimes offer good advice especially if they know the other person's family. If you choose to do something, then don't do anything right away as that would be too predictable. Be patient and wait for an opportunity to for this fellow to screw up. Idiots like the one you had described will provide you an opening sooner or later. If you do get this person back, then make sure you:

1) Do not do anything illegal or immoral.
2) Compromise your ethics and moral stature
3) Put your school situation at risk
4) Launch action disproportionate to what this person did to you
5) Commit a violent act especially one that could get you in trouble with the law.

My thinking is that you should let the school administration know what happened and let him be on their watchlist. They might not be able to do anything for your situation, but let him be observed. Just be smart about this situation, and don't become the very evil that you seek to fight.

[byee]

Although what happened here is truly gross and completely unacceptable, you should not stoop to his level by getting revenge. Not only does it risk a further escalation (we can only imagine which waste product he'd next be spreading on your possessions!) but you risk getting yourself into uber-trouble here if he does what you should do: Tell the school authorities what he did and let them take care of it (and maybe alos tell your folks so they can follow thru with them, too).

Revenge is really overrated. What you want is to take the high road, the goal is to stop the behavior (or it's continuation). "Pissing back on someone" takes many forms, you know: Bringing his disgusting behavior to the attention of those who can, by merely confronting him, humliate him can be very satisfying, indeed.

[ackmedsgirl666]

since this happened at school u can talk to an adult in superior charge or something or talk to ur parent
what this person did is wrong
but put it this way
if u do something back 2 him then u both will get consequences

[Blue63]

What a jerk, I hate when people mess with my stuff, I'm a little evil so let me give you a something. I don't really believe in revenge but some times I think it is a necessary form of prevention.

First of all, revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait, wait a while so he doesn't expect it. However, you don't want to do anything so bad it could get you in trouble at school and then be on your college record. Actually this is pretty serious thing so you could just talk to a principle about it.

Whatever you do, let him know that you should not be messed with, don't let people walk all over you, it's hard to reverse, believe me.

[Bluearmy]

Tell a superior?: and be a snitch!?
"Don't stoop to his level": and be a pussy in his eyes?!

Punch the dude square in the face. Then just work out what will happen from there. You might get in some trouble, but there is few greater feelings then knowing you showed someone who is the boss, and who is the bitch.

[Leprachaun]

I really need to do something to get him back, he has already humiliated me by telling the whole school and people laugh when they see me now, so just ignoring him or telling isn't an option because I want to get him!

[Zazu]

Like Sam said, don't stopp to his level.

When stuff like this happens, yer it can spread around school and people might laugh at you about it, but imho, the best thing you can do is to not do anything.

You may not feel that doing nothing is the right option, but imo it shows that you're more of a man than him; you don't feel the necessity to lower yourself to that level.

I know it might be hard but I'd honestly just try and let it blow over dude :)

[Bluearmy]

I really need to do something to get him back, he has already humiliated me by telling the whole school and people laugh when they see me now, so just ignoring him or telling isn't an option because I want to get him!

Hit 'em, just do it. You know you want to.

[Leprachaun]

i know i should just ignore him but he does stuff like this all the time and gets away with it so someone needs to teach him a lesson!

[Cloud]

Hit 'em, just do it. You know you want to.
dont try to get people to start fights it wont work
Violence wont solve it. who cares if hes a "snitch" jsut go back and keep going back nad telling someone
trust me just tell a teacher adn they should sort it out
and if they dont then tell someone higher up. DO NOT GET VIOLENT
whatever the teachers do will probably stick with him later on if it goes on his record
bruises heal, records arent erased

[WEO]

steal his lunch, cum on the bread, put it back nicely and tell him after he ate it if he doesnt notice. Then just #### him up. In these situations you really cant do nothing, all you ever fucking hear is 'violence wont solve it' or talk to someone... #### that this is perfect! he is a damn guy/boy/male not some pussy who should be walked over ..... ..sigh ..sorry im in a really bad mood right now. But right now, thats what I would do.