what do girls look for in a guy? ( opposite)

[I Have A Question]

this is just the opposite of the other topic but i still wana no girls preferences?

[WelshLad]

yeah - i'm quite keen to know this as well. I'd say girls are more shallow than guys (in general)

[beautifullytragic]

alright well...let's see here...first of all, and I think I speak for all girls when I say this, I want a guy who likes me for me, who thinks I'm beautiful even if I look like crap that day, and just in general. Someone who won't criticize how I look and someone who will compliment me on how I look. Someone who would stand up for me and protect me. Someone who shares common interests with me...and I gotta run, so I'll continue this post later, sorry!

[Elokyn]

If you're talking about immediate physical attraction I would say the eyes...eyes always get me and no matter what you look like if you're funny and you make me laugh I'm attracted to you right away. (That's what got me about Joseph)

However personality like I said funny, but knows when to be serious. Smart, but not afraid to say "I don't know". Protective, but not rediculously jealous. Sensitive, but still masculine(sp?).

Most importantly he has to like me for me..not for what he thinks I can give him or what I look like. Honestly I love being made to feel like I'm important to him..the little calls just to say I love you and the time he takes out of his day to do things for me mean a lot to me.

[BeautyFromPain]

ok..ok..here we go..lets see..i like a guy with a great sense or humor, and they cant be mean to people either..i mean every now and then they can pick but not flat out mean. i guess thats it..lol..arent i picky? :roll:

[redcar]

...eyes always get me and no matter what you look like if you're funny and you make me laugh I'm attracted to you right away

snap! thats what i love in a guy as well!!:D

[Glasgow]

Wow, i basically meet all those characteristics, so I guess thats why all the girls like me.

Haha anyways sorry to post this, just felt like I had to.

[kolte]

alright well...let's see here...first of all, and I think I speak for all girls when I say this, I want a guy who likes me for me, who thinks I'm beautiful even if I look like crap that day, and just in general. Someone who won't criticize how I look and someone who will compliment me on how I look. Someone who would stand up for me and protect me. Someone who shares common interests with me...and I gotta run, so I'll continue this post later, sorry!

ya see thats the thing, i think they should think your beautiful no matter what, like, not even think you look bad, even when you do. thats nice.

[beautifullytragic]

that's what matters sooo much to me kolte, glad others feel that way as well

[boognish]

you see its funny, because every girl i meet and ask this they say just that, but its really not true, not matter how nice his eyes, how funny, how loving he may be, there are just some physical things that most women cant get over. not saying men are any better, look at Maxim, but we cant deny that society believes that your mind and personality are the most important qualities, but doesnt really act out that belief. like the christian that eats pig. yeah yeah you think its just jewish people, but read the bible, its one of the few things god is specific about, but there are thousands of men and women like me that have all these great qualities but can never and probly will never find anyone to love them until the have surgery or give up their values to reach the standard just to get a date. well im depressed about it, as bad as it is to be alone is just intensified by the fact that at one point i wasnt alone in my life, but after moving away from my love, and my love moving away also, me gaining gross amounts of weight from the depression, developing zits because of stress, all adds up to insecurities.

and the most depressing part is that if i had, and i have, the chance to find someone, i cant. im not social with strangers or people im in love with. i have developed a phobia to starting relationships, while at the same time getting depressed from not being in a relationship, sad huh?

[BeautyFromPain]

Wow, i basically meet all those characteristics, so I guess thats why all the girls like me.

Haha anyways sorry to post this, just felt like I had to.

funny. :lol:

[Pink-Floyd]

I'm Lucky to Have my Girlfriend

[Waiting]

I'm Lucky to Have my Girlfriend

[r0x0row3nd]

me too :D and i do meet funny part and i guess im not half bad looking ....and my eyes are kewl as hell they're my entertainment sometimes they are blue somtimes ill look in mirror and they're green!!! its awsome lol i guess my minds playing tricks on me lol

[Pink-Floyd]

Some girl named Victoria said my eyes were pretty once,

YOu should see Sophies eyes, There Greenish Bluish, THere so Wild, its like a Nature eyes or something, lol you porbably dont get what im saying

[CoffeeBeak]

Someone who thinks. I really don't care about what a guy looks like (though I have to admit I am drawn to the grunge look- long hair, jeans and t-shirt)... I really just care about what they think. I like people who aren't afraid to be themselves, and don't fit into the moulds of society. Cos people who don't think bore me really quickly. I prefer sentience. :)

[Webbeardthepirate]

Lies, all lies. They only care about smell. The more fit you are the better you'll smell, combined with an immune system different from their own, it makes resulting children resistant to more diseases and that is information conveyed by scent. What they say they want is what they want in a friend, and no one ever makes the transition from friend to boyfriend, but they will never own up to it. They say they want some one funny, but if they like a guy they will laugh at any dumb thing they say. The eye thing, they have to get close enough to smell a guy to actually see his eyes. Incedently the relevent odors register in a special duct in the the upper sinuses, and does not register as a conciously recognizable scent. Its not B.O. thats a bacteria that causes that odor and it is NOT desirable. Flossing will also help prevent bad breath, which is another bad odor to be avoided. Sweat is good though, it helps convey the information about your imune system. But they'll know the first time they sniff you, but they never never tell.

Go ahead, deny it.

[2inchesandstillpullin]

However personality like I said funny, but knows when to be serious. Smart, but not afraid to say "I don't know". Protective, but not rediculously jealous. Sensitive, but still masculine(sp?).

So contradictive, but also agreeable?

[forestfire20]

i look for mostly in a girl ackseptance ( i know that was speled wrong sry) because i am the most hyper kid in school ( i have cofie every morning and shugar every night) i also look for someone kind and funny. and i always am to protective i have lost soooooooo many girlfriends by being "to" protective(i broke a guys leg when he insulted my gf)

[Aηdy]

I'm Lucky to Have my Girlfriend

[forestfire20]

I'm Lucky to Have my Girlfriend

[sgtpeppers]

nice advice..............................................

[Dawncloack]

alright well...let's see here...first of all, and I think I speak for all girls when I say this, I want a guy who likes me for me, who thinks I'm beautiful even if I look like crap that day, and just in general. Someone who won't criticize how I look and someone who will compliment me on how I look. Someone who would stand up for me and protect me. Someone who shares common interests with me...and I gotta run, so I'll continue this post later, sorry!

ya see thats the thing, i think they should think your beautiful no matter what, like, not even think you look bad, even when you do. thats nice.

Yeah, and then, because we think you are beautiful even when that day you don't feel like it, accuse us of lying!!

Borrowing someone's signature:
The above post might contain sarcasm. ;)

[Blu]

Like most of the girls here, I'm a sucker for pretty eyes. I also like guys with nice arms (xD) and ones which can admit when they've made mistakes. Especially when a guy corrects his grammar...not only is he admitting that he's made a mistake (in fewer words, of course), but he's also showing that he's intelligent. In a way. </strangeness>

[Peanut Butter]

If you're talking about immediate physical attraction I would say the eyes...eyes always get me and no matter what you look like if you're funny and you make me laugh I'm attracted to you right away. (That's what got me about Joseph)

However personality like I said funny, but knows when to be serious. Smart, but not afraid to say "I don't know". Protective, but not rediculously jealous. Sensitive, but still masculine(sp?).

Most importantly he has to like me for me..not for what he thinks I can give him or what I look like. Honestly I love being made to feel like I'm important to him..the little calls just to say I love you and the time he takes out of his day to do things for me mean a lot to me.

If that is what a girl wants then thats the kinda girl I want. some one who wants the above things.(Nykole, although you're beautiful, please know that i know that you are taken and I am not saying I want you,lol)