Making out

[dec_1892]

So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 5 months now. We have shared our first kiss, and even first make out.

The thing is that our kissing has become so routine, seeing how we only see each other at school, and on dates and stuff. We don't really go to each others houses much because it would be awkward with the parents. So we stick to kissing at school and making out at the movies and stuff. (we don't really make out at school, we're both kinda shy..)

So what I guess I'm asking is

1) Is there anything we can do to get past our shyness
2) Are there really any other make out places besides the movies?? (i don't drive just yet..)

and another thing, she has gotten pretty aggressive, and even with a regular kiss before class she tries to give tongue and stuff...I think that's a real turn off..and when we DO make out, she jumps right into it..

Any suggestions/comments?

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[RaeNose]

Psh. Awkward with parents after 5 months? You're crazy boy, lol.
Well, my suggestion for make out spots is: go exploring. There have to be a least a few good spots in your hometown for kissing, whether it be on a trail or in a hidden grove of trees. You just have to go on a walk to find these places.

Oh, and about the passive-aggressive kissing from your gf, let her know that it's a turn off. Yeah, the advice sounds stupid, but it's the truth. If you let her know, she'll most likely stop. Although, she's probably just bored with kissing. You should try the "James Bond Kiss" (trust me, this kiss gives me shivers every time Sam does it, you just have to do it properly; this is a standing up kiss btw). 1) Put on hand on her waist and the other hand on her neck, gently. 2) Slide you hand to the back of her neck/into her hair, whilst the other hand slides onto the small of her back and pull her in close to you. When you pull her midsection close, it should be strong, but not too forceful. It's only to catch her off guard. 3) Kiss her. This kiss isn't a make out kiss, really; although it can be. Mainly, I thought of this because it was really hot, but it did not necessarily have to lead to a make out session. It could've stood on its own as a breath-taking, dazing sort of kiss.

Hopefully ^that^ helps, and I hope you have fun kissing each other. lol. ;)

[dec_1892]

Thank you! That was great advice! I'll give it a shot. ;)

[RaeNose]

lol, no worries, hun. Just here to randomly spew advice wherever it may land.

[Music Lover]

shyness can usually be overcome by challenging it, for example, in your case, the most obvious solution would either be to just make out in school and see how it goes, or to get your and her parents to know.

About the way her new way of kissing turns you off, the only way to let her know is to tell her and ask her to stop.

Your girlfriend probably just wants something new, but if tounging is not OK with you, you should let her know

[dec_1892]

No, tonguing is perfectly fine with me. ;) I just think that it should be built up to and not happen as soon as your lips make contact. I guess I'll just have to tell her that...

[RaeNose]

yep. That and keep your lips tightly closed whilst kissing her. lol.:P

[pcd31]

My school has a place called the "sex box". It's a room upstairs that's closed off, has no cameras, and nobody goes in there. There's also a flight of stairs at the end of a hallway that's usually empty that people go to. Look around for a private area of your school.

[bussitbabydoll]

get hard when your making out. thingswill move a lot faster.
:)

[RaeNose]

He's not trying to have sex, he's trying to please his shy, yet bored, girlfriend.