A Little Bit Scared.

[ShinigamiMaiden]

yeah okay. i'm really happy i got a boyfriend today :D but when we break up im KNOW im going to take it badly...what can i do about this? i really love him (: i hope we last for a long time. i think we will...but when we finally break up(if we do) i will be VERY upset.


(PS-also this may sound off topic but how do you have a picture under your name?)

[Project Delta]

I cant help you with the picture but i'm guessing its somewhere in the user CP

I also hope that you are your boyfriend stay together for a long time, try to just be yourself if he likes that. But even if you do split try and still be really good friends because then you will be around them more and hopefully it wont affect you as much :)

[Char_x]

Just try not to think negative cos that alone will make you feel down. If you love him that much then you can make it work :). You've only just started going out so im guessing that so far theres no reason for him to want to break up with you.
If you did eventually break up one day then you never know, it might be on your terms rather than his but hopefully it wont come to that so just try and think possitive and have good thoughts about you both and what a good future you could both have together :).

About the picture thing, you click on your name to go on your profile and somewhere on there it says something about having an aviator and you go on that and then upload a picture from your computer. Hope this helps :)

[The Joker]

Why are you thinking negatively right away? You say you love him, so that's a good thing. I assume you love him because he's nice, and if he loves you back and is a nice person, there is a smaller chance of being dumped.

[Specter]

Hey there I’m happy to see new faces around these forums it’s always a pleasure to meet newcomers.

So on with the topic, you shouldn’t be worried about losing your boyfriend that will only lead to a poor relationship, rather I suggest you enjoy the time spent with him. Just be yourself and have fun. Keep in mind that dating is to find your soul mate if this guy isn’t the right one then who cares if you brake up because there will be others after him.

I hope this helps!

[Saphire_Alexi]

Hey, Im new,and I dont have the best advice, but id say that if you love eachtother, hope for the best, and if you break p, you should take it out on a friend, meaning tell them about it, and hopefully they will bring comfort, btw my sister does the same thing, she does it because of people yelling at her though.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

everyone breaks up,
and its hard,
you shouldnt be worrying about this right away sweetie!
in realistic terms, obviously at some point your going to break up,
no one at our age's stays together forever,
but the point it so enjoy each other in the moment,
love each other
get to know each other
the point of having relationships at this age even though we know they wont work out
is to get practice,
emotion experience
and learn how love one on other
dont think so much, just enjoy it:)
when the pain does come,
you have to learn how to deal with it,
its part of life.