View Full Version : HELP i need help with gay relationship!!
Ladysman
May 11th, 2009, 11:35 PM
Ok im 13 and and bi me and my friend(who is also bi) went camping one thing lead to another and we got naked he asked if i was horny i said ya and i asked him he said ya then he asked if i wanted a blow job it being my 1st i was scared but it whent well it was only earlyer that night he found out i was bi and i told him not to think any dif of me but now i think i love him im confused i dont know what to do im thinking that next time he gives me a blow job im going to lift up his head and start making out with him problem is hes
bi-curious idk if he wants a bf i really want to b his boyfriend sooooo bad what should i do?
And one more thing is oral sex or blow job(same thing) considered losing ur viginity???
Ok thanks for your time help in anyway u can
Oren
May 11th, 2009, 11:47 PM
I think you should just talk to him about it, trust is key.
For losing your virginity, it's how you consider it. It technical isn't (correct me if i'm wrong :))
guacamole24
May 12th, 2009, 03:54 PM
One thing you should consider is if he liked giving you a blowjob. If he said he was horny, he could've been into you.
Slaughtlander
May 13th, 2009, 12:13 AM
Man! I wish I had the guts to tell a friend that I'm bi! I go camping with my school band ALOT and we have ALOT of hot guys... Oh well, I think you should definitely talk to him about it, because if he wants it also, it could become a very good relationship and give you some extra stability when coming out of the closet. BTW, the way I look at losing your virginity is if their is any kind of actual penetration ECT: Anal, Vaginal
BTW I love how your name is Ladysman xD Sooo ironic eh?
Axellance
May 13th, 2009, 12:58 AM
ok, well i assume that he want to be more then friends if he gave you a blojob and didnt even ask for anything in return... i would talk to him about it and weather he would consider dating...
confusedboy
May 13th, 2009, 11:46 AM
Just ask he how he feels about it and that you wanna go out with him.
For the virginity - I don't think so.
chris__robin
May 14th, 2009, 01:08 AM
i think that you might feel like you love him because it was your first time. its natural to feel close to the person you were first sexual with because its a pretty new and intense thing. but yeah you need to talk to him or drop hints at least and see where he stands, if he likes you back then hang out and see where it leads. if it was just a one off then don't worry theres plenty of fish in the sea.
losing your virginity is really penetration. dont know bout anyone else but id consider bj's foreplay.
Schon
May 22nd, 2009, 02:07 AM
I think you should just talk to him about it, trust is key.
i agree
charlie w
May 23rd, 2009, 09:53 AM
wow, your lucky, anyway like everyone else has said just ask him what he feels about you. and a bj is usually considered foreplay. in most definitions, losing your viginity is anal sex ect.
Jamesmmur
May 23rd, 2009, 01:14 PM
Yea i think you need to make sure that he isnt just into you when he is horny if your gonna have a relationship you should make sure your gonna enjoy it and to me that should be more emotional then physical ; its nice to know the person more then just "fooling" around with them and such.
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