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Toilet Water.
May 11th, 2009, 09:33 PM
There's this guy I like, he's actually my ex, but my friend likes him aswell..
He likes me, he doesn't like her.
She likes him, I like him..
I'm so confused..
What should I do?
:s

IAMWILL
May 11th, 2009, 10:07 PM
Ugh, the whole friend thing.

Honestly you shouldn't be affected by what other people feel about the same person you like. I mean, as long as you like him, why should you care/matter about what others think. Don't worry about hurting peoples feelings either, they should be mature enough to accept it.

sabotaged111
May 13th, 2009, 04:17 AM
Ugh, the whole friend thing.

Honestly you shouldn't be affected by what other people feel about the same person you like. I mean, as long as you like him, why should you care/matter about what others think. Don't worry about hurting peoples feelings either, they should be mature enough to accept it.

Couldn't say it better myself.

RaeNose
May 14th, 2009, 01:21 AM
If he doesn't like her, tough. She needs to get over it.
If he likes you and you like him, wonderful. Tah-dah. Perfect.... and all that jazz.
Although don't be particularly rude about it if she's a rather good friend of yours. You don't want to lose friends over a stupid boy. Her being upset for a little while may be permissible; however, if one compromises a friendship in this sort of situation, you can come out of this looking like the bad guy.

Toilet Water.
May 15th, 2009, 06:11 AM
Oh, cool.
Thank you guys. :]

ScotsGirl
May 15th, 2009, 09:38 PM
I always thought ex's were out of bounds for good friends? :eyebrow:
I feel like the friend shouldnt even be thinking about making a move on the ex....

xxx

inlove
May 16th, 2009, 12:23 AM
Try to make urself happy.. and talk to her be4 u make a move even if she doesnt agree just so she no's ur going to..

Toilet Water.
May 16th, 2009, 06:23 AM
My friends know I'm just like - whatever, to who they want to date; they can date my ex's if they want, and I won't bitch at them for it.

I asked her how she'd feel if we were to go out, she said whatever, and said she doesn't like him much.

So, we're going out - again. :]

RaeNose
May 16th, 2009, 12:20 PM
Good for you. :)
I glad you got hat settled.