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ackmedsgirl666
May 11th, 2009, 01:13 PM
theres this teacher i have
she is very good looking like 30 yrs old or something and single
i think that she mihgt be bi or something
lately i have been finding myself daydreaming about her and i don want to get the rep that i had last time i had a crush on a teacher
can anyone help me with this plz??
the thing is i dunno how to go about this without frieking ppl out
so does anyone know how i can go about this without it completely ruining me?

Generic269
May 11th, 2009, 01:51 PM
Well as far as I'm aware teachers and students can't form a romantic relationship while the student attends the school the teacher teaches at.

But having a crush on a teacher is quite normal. Just don't go blurting it out.

TigerLily
May 11th, 2009, 03:22 PM
It is illegal for a teacher to form a romantic relationship with a student, so much so that it can seriously threaten their career if they do so, at the very least. Whether she is bi or single is irrelevant, as I can assure you that nothing will come of this, simply because of the legal, and arguably moral, trouble this could land your teacher in.
Because of this, you should try and get over this crush as quickly as possible, although I understand it probably isn't as easy for you to do as it is for me to say.
If I were you, I probably wouldn't go blurting this out as a lot of school kids could be mean enough to use it against you. Sad but true.
All the best :)

Aneklusmos
May 11th, 2009, 04:19 PM
Whatever you do, don't do anything with her. Don't flirt with her or anything. It can end up with both of you having severe repercussions later in life. She could lose her teaching license and you could be mentally scarred if she decides to take it too far. Plenty of kids have crushed on their teacher before. Your not abnormal but if you like her in anyway don't do it to her or yourself

INFERNO
May 11th, 2009, 10:55 PM
This is not something abnormal, however, it's not something that you should tell many people within the school because it tends to be taken very badly. The teacher, regardless of their sexual orientation, is legally, morally and ethically unable to form romantic or sexual relationships with any current student.

Everyone has their sexual fantasies and if this is yours, then that's fine. I don't think you should try to get rid of it, however, I don't think you should tell others nor flirt with the teacher.

Death
May 12th, 2009, 01:06 PM
Agreed; be sure that you leave no evidence of this for both your and her sake.

IfPiratesCouldFly
May 12th, 2009, 03:41 PM
I don't see what's wrong with it.
I hear people say "Ms. So&so is effin' hot." all the time. It's normal, I don't really understand why you can't blurt that out either, but I guess if your school frowns on that, then it's whatever, don't go blurting it out.

sabotaged111
May 13th, 2009, 02:54 AM
It is illegal for a teacher to form a romantic relationship with a student, so much so that it can seriously threaten their career if they do so, at the very least. Whether she is bi or single is irrelevant, as I can assure you that nothing will come of this, simply because of the legal, and arguably moral, trouble this could land your teacher in.
Because of this, you should try and get over this crush as quickly as possible, although I understand it probably isn't as easy for you to do as it is for me to say.
If I were you, I probably wouldn't go blurting this out as a lot of school kids could be mean enough to use it against you. Sad but true.
All the best :)

Nicely said, I agree:)