should i lie or???

[sienna.]

okayyy..
so most of you will know, that my boyfriend slept with my best friend twice, and on the same day i found out, i slept with matt's (my boyfriends) best friend.

but it's all goood now..

except i have a feeling that matt is curious to see who is better in bed.
like he makes little comments, and when he does i try change the subject, but i can't do that forever.

so what do i say if he asks???

do i lie and say: that coop wasn't that good and that you are better???
orr...
do i tell the truth and say: coop was good, but you are better??

which is the truth.

i mean sex with coop was great.
the were sparks and it was like hold on, moaning great!!

but with matt 1. because i love him.
but it is fireworks, toe scrunching, nail digging into him, screaming amazing.

but still i don't know what to say.
i don't want him to feel like he now has to compete with his best friend.

what he doesn't know wont hurt him.
but yet again i don't want to lie.

[byee]

Call me old fashioned here, but best friends don't have sex with eachother while they're dating the other one, they don't use sex as a way to get back at the others, and they don't compare notes, they don't see sex and relationships as a competition.. There's precious little in any of these relationships I personally find wholesome, so if you must continue to remain in them and somehow experience them as worthwhile, I'd only do or say anything that even mildly resembles normalcy, or do or say anything that can even remotely hope to achieve that.

So, no, I wouldn't talk about any part of any of it with Matt. I would, however, recommend you talk all this over with your therapist and hopefully find out why you need to be involved this way.