Is she Interested?

[The Joker]

OK, a little info about me. This is part self opinion, and most of it is what I've been told.

I am cute, not neccesarily hot.
I am funny.
I am weird.
I am nice.
I am a good friend.

I like this girl, here's some more description of her.

She is hot.
She is really nice.
She is funny.
And she is smart.

Now, we've talked a bit, but not really anything too deep. Every time I talk to her, I make her laugh. She seems to kinda like me as a friend. The day that my friend told her that I liked her, she actually went to the trouble of finding my MSN and IMing me, even though I didn't have her as a contact. She's initiated a MSN chat several times. So, two questions, is she interested, and how can I further this relationship and get to know her better?

[inlove]

ok....
What did you talk about on msn?
and if she smiles or laughs when shes around u thats a good sign..
if she ever laughs when u are not trying to make her laugh or smile thats a gr8 sign..
if she takes the time to say hi to u , or if u ever see her looken at u from across a hall or room or something thats a gr8 sign...
GL bro. lifes too short. go for it man, if she looked u up on msn after knowing u liked her, then she will give u the time of day man =]

[Gumleaf]

the fact she initiates chats with you on msn is not really an indicator of whether she is interested or not. she may just like your company and wants to be friends with you? i think right now you are best to let your friendship develop a little bit and look for more hints to see if she is interested such as a little flirting and stuff. by letting your friendship develop more you will get to know her more too.

[byee]

Typically, people don't go out of their way to find someone's contact info and initiate contact if they're not at least somewhat interested in something. The question, of course, is exactly what that 'something' she's interested in is, and what that means.

So, go under the assumption that there's something about you she likes, finds desirable, and just talk with her and spend time with her doing *whatever* it is that seems to be working. Pretty soon, it'll become clearer exactly *what* it is she's thinking, people usually give pretty stronger hints as things progress. And don't spend too much time trying to figure out what *That* is, what other people find attractive in us is often beyond out own awareness.

Enjoy the ride!

[The Joker]

Thank you so much. Sometimes I get discouraged with girls, so this makes me feel a lot better.

[Oren]

I would get to know her a bit more, the way you talk about it is that you only know her a bit.

I suggest trying to talk to her more and see what similarities and differences the two you have first.