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DumDiddley13
January 25th, 2006, 11:32 AM
Is any1 gonna wait to have sex?? It seems like no1 is anymore. I am. Any1 else? :?

WelshLad
January 25th, 2006, 11:35 AM
uh no way - its the 21st century

redcar
January 25th, 2006, 11:35 AM
well i cartainly am not going to wait. i'm already dammed according to the church so i mite as well keep going!

DumDiddley13
January 25th, 2006, 12:50 PM
}]I might, I might not. I mean, I won't have sex now, but I most likely won't wait until I'm more than 16 or 17.. maybe 18, I'm not totally sure.. but if I find the right person then :whistle:

how old r u now?

DumDiddley13
January 25th, 2006, 01:41 PM
Great site, thanks! :wink:

BeautyFromPain
January 26th, 2006, 01:29 AM
depends..i mean i always said i would wait but now that i think about it..if i found somebody i really loved and really wanted it..then maybe i would have sex before marrige.

evw93
January 27th, 2006, 07:33 PM
I'm 13, so I dont know yet

serial-thrilla
January 27th, 2006, 08:18 PM
i dont ever see myself getting married so yes.

r0x0row3nd
January 30th, 2006, 06:16 PM
srry but... hell no ive alrdy had sex so i cant take it back and we just broke up :( but no i wouldnt wait as long aas theres a condom between u and her its kewl

ScotsGirl
January 31st, 2006, 08:46 PM
Theyre great sites David! Thanks! :D

Anyway...

I didnt wait, and I never planned on waiting. And I have no regrets.

:D
xxx

Underage_Thinker
January 31st, 2006, 09:33 PM
i am only 14 but don't plan on waiting

Waiting
February 2nd, 2006, 09:40 AM
im not a virgin, however i only, and have only ever slept with my current girlfriend
we've been together for nearly 2 years, and i see a future with her
i dont think sex before marriage matters, howveer i think u shud only really have sex inside of love

serial-thrilla
February 2nd, 2006, 04:50 PM
i see the benefits to waiting though, i mean if you waited so long it would be all the more special.

Webbeardthepirate
February 15th, 2006, 03:24 PM
I'm told its quite pleasent and an entertaining diversion for a time. Still, it can't hurt to wait. And genital warts cause cervical cancer which can kill you. If you haven't you should wait until the vaccine is available, cause folks lie about cheating and even if your monogomouse there is no garuntee your partner always will be. There is also talk that human papiloma virus can cause cancer of the mouth or throat, so even that's a dangerous without some precautions. If you can't figure out what that means you shouldn't be sexually active, period.

Bobby
February 15th, 2006, 04:37 PM
being a good little jewish boy i might wait, but it's all about personal beliefs. But if the right girl comes along you never know what hormones will make you do.

Aηdy
February 15th, 2006, 05:42 PM
Im all for sex before marrige! i will most likely have sex when im 15+

Webbeardthepirate
February 15th, 2006, 07:25 PM
15? Got some one all picked out have you. 15 seems young. Its below the age of consent in most states so it is rape unless your partner is also 15. Then your parents are responsible and can be sued for failure to properly supervise you.

2inchesandstillpullin
February 15th, 2006, 07:27 PM
rape?

i'll have to lay off the 12 year olds then

none
February 15th, 2006, 09:18 PM
I'm told its quite pleasent and an entertaining diversion for a time. Still, it can't hurt to wait. And genital warts cause cervical cancer which can kill you. If you haven't you should wait until the vaccine is available, cause folks lie about cheating and even if your monogomouse there is no garuntee your partner always will be. There is also talk that human papiloma virus can cause cancer of the mouth or throat, so even that's a dangerous without some precautions. If you can't figure out what that means you shouldn't be sexually active, period.

Who has brainwashed you with this rubbish?! If everybody waited until there was a vaccine for genital warts the human race would end!!! Because, according to you, there is no gaurantee that your wife/ husband/ partner isnt sleeping around picking up all manners of contagious, cancer causing killer diseases! I'm not playing down the importance of using protection, or of STI/ STD' s but honestly, please dont take any notice of scare tatics. If two people are entering into a sexual relationship, openly and honestly with eachother, using protection against STI's and birth control ideally, with a good understanding of the moral and emotional implications of a sexual relaitonship, thats the best its going to get. The chances of ending up with cancer as a result of sex, are slim and its rediculous to sugget this as a reason to abstaine from sex all together.

forestfire20
February 16th, 2006, 10:18 PM
im still not shure if i will if i get hooked up with the girl ive been ubscesed with 4 like a year than yes i defenately will

c.a.182
February 25th, 2006, 12:07 AM
personally im not gonna wait but my best friend said shes diffinetly gonna wait, so i guess everyone has their own opinions

DouggyO.o
February 25th, 2006, 09:58 AM
yes unless i really LOVE theperson

Peanut Butter
February 25th, 2006, 08:54 PM
I am not going to have sex before marriage. not only because of my church's beliefs but also because of my personal beliefs.

MrSchrimpy
March 2nd, 2006, 07:39 AM
Listen...

If you're in some sort of relationship with someone you trust, then you may as well go for it as long as you feel comfortable with it, and know something about safe sex/birth control. The thing is, you could have the best no-sex-before-marriage relationship, but then find that you are completely sexually incompatible after you get married, years later. This is a bigger deal than you might realise-it can wreck a relationship, despite both people loving each other very much.

Besides, when did Jesus say you can't have sex before you're wed? I've read the gospels through and through and I only see him telling people not to go to church and that money is the wrong way to go. I need somebody of faith to explain that one to me.

krzwis
March 2nd, 2006, 07:40 PM
i'm holding it off till I get married.....random making out, having sex...etc....it ain't fun..

oh sure...its fun for a bit, but relationships are connections between two people. Love, respect, really having a kick ass time with them.

if i wanted a someone to have sex with, I'd buy a masturbator or something....thier MUCH cheaper in the long run and give you fun anytime you want

queenofshoes22
March 12th, 2006, 09:26 AM
srry but... hell no ive alrdy had sex so i cant take it back and we just broke up :( but no i wouldnt wait as long aas theres a condom between u and her its kewl............how old were u when u had sax?

fdsgfg55465
March 15th, 2006, 11:17 PM
uh no way - its the 21st century