she keeps on touching me

[Dragonite]

I have a friend and she likes me alot, but I dont like her. But she wants me to like her, and she keeps on touching me im bad areas (she even flashed me!) and i've already told her to stop and i was going to charge her with sexual assault, But keeps on doing it. i'm on the verge of just telling her i will never like her and she will never have a chance with me! is there anything i can do to get her to stop (When i tell her to stop she just says im being mean and dosen't talk to me for like 5 minutes.)

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

I would recommend not seeing her anymore, or at least limiting it. Also, make sure you're with other friends, so she's less likely to be feeling you up. She obviously isn't listening when you say you're uncomfortable, and she thinks that turning you on is the key to your heart. She's also manipulating you, by giving you the silent treatment and telling you you're being mean when you won't let her touch you. You're not being "mean", and you really do have the right to say no.

If she doesn't listen, and that's how it sounds to me, you need to stop seeing her. It's the only way to ensure that this won't keep happening. Maybe she'll get it, and you can start letting her back in. Maybe she won't, and you'll have to start distancing yourself again. For now, try not to be alone with her as much, and don't react if she gives you the silent treatment. Go about your business, don't try to apologize or get her to talk to you. If she calls you mean, just say, "Ok," and ignore it. Giving her attention will only make the behavior more likely to continue.

[Dragonite]

i think your right shes done alot of stuff to me shes lucky im still her friend i wouldnt go out with her and she tried to spread a rumor about me (she said i was gay) but no one listened to her because no guy likes her. and she lied to me about my old girlfriend cheating on me when she wasnt she did it just because she was jelous and wanted me to break up with her. Thanks for posting

[antimonic]

be horribly blunt with her i think, except without saying it. like whats been said earlier, be neglectful, ignoring, avoiding and emotionless. usually does the trick when you want to piss someone off aswell :D

[BehindBlueEyes]

Dude, send her to me.

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

Dude, send her to me.

Ahahahaha.



Uhm...haha.

Anyway, sometimes being mean is the only way, get aggressive with your responses if you have to like "Get the eff off there, I'm not friggn kidding."
Get mad if you have to, that'll show her at the very least that you don't want it. That's not generally the advise I'd give, but sometimes you have to do that.

[Reality]

You shouldn't be friends with her.