Generic269
May 10th, 2009, 10:31 AM
There's this guy I like. A lot.
I've already told him I liked him about a month ago and he told me he's not interested, which I was kind of expecting and after that he stopped talking to me etc. Since then I've told him I'm over him but I'm obviously not and I think he knows I'm lying.
Anyway I was misreading the signs before I told him after some of my friends thought he liked me back. They were things like eye contact & flirting.
In the past couple of weeks though he has started to be concerned about me because I've been depressed (about nothing; it was just a mood swing). He even said I looked like I was about to cry, which no-one else noticed. I've caught him staring at me a few times out of the corner of my eye and occassionally I've seen it full-on, but he looks away. His eyes are usually slightly dreamier than usual when he looks at me compared to other people, and his mouth slightly open, however it has occassionally looked like he was simply staring into space. He is good at making eye contact with whoever he is speaking to although I have seen him looking in my direction while talking to someone by his side and he usually cuts off when the conversation stops but sometimes he doesn't with me. He's treating me like a close friend all of a sudden even though I haven't done anything to deserve it.
I usually view these in a positive light but now I'm wondering if I'm just kidding myself. He could just be concerned (even though others have been crying about other things and he ignores them) or trying to create a friendship with me. He might not even be looking at me most of the time I think he is.
What should I do? :confused: I don't want to tell him again incase I sound desperate or something.
I've already told him I liked him about a month ago and he told me he's not interested, which I was kind of expecting and after that he stopped talking to me etc. Since then I've told him I'm over him but I'm obviously not and I think he knows I'm lying.
Anyway I was misreading the signs before I told him after some of my friends thought he liked me back. They were things like eye contact & flirting.
In the past couple of weeks though he has started to be concerned about me because I've been depressed (about nothing; it was just a mood swing). He even said I looked like I was about to cry, which no-one else noticed. I've caught him staring at me a few times out of the corner of my eye and occassionally I've seen it full-on, but he looks away. His eyes are usually slightly dreamier than usual when he looks at me compared to other people, and his mouth slightly open, however it has occassionally looked like he was simply staring into space. He is good at making eye contact with whoever he is speaking to although I have seen him looking in my direction while talking to someone by his side and he usually cuts off when the conversation stops but sometimes he doesn't with me. He's treating me like a close friend all of a sudden even though I haven't done anything to deserve it.
I usually view these in a positive light but now I'm wondering if I'm just kidding myself. He could just be concerned (even though others have been crying about other things and he ignores them) or trying to create a friendship with me. He might not even be looking at me most of the time I think he is.
What should I do? :confused: I don't want to tell him again incase I sound desperate or something.