am i gay?

[gotanyDman]

i am a 13-year-old npy and im in love with another boy. emotionally, not just physically. help me out cause ive heard all the "curiosity" and "your going through a stage" garbage. but im a deep in love and dont no what to do. please help!

[Zazu]

Even though you say that you've heard all of the 'garbage' about curiosity / going through stages, there is the chance that it could just be your hormones playing you up. Sometimes, as you go through puberty, your hormones can affect you so much that some things which you think might be the definate truth might not be.

Of course I'm not denying the possibility of you being gay though, just be patient and as you mature you'll find out within yourself where you really stand.

[gotanyDman]

thanks!

[Dragonite]

i felt the same way once but i evantually got over it the same might happen for you.

[itsJustme89]

try not to stress about it too much, you may be gay, or you might not be, only time will tell

[karl]

Maybe you are, but in the meantime enjoy your relationship with him and don't feel guilty. There's nothing 'wrong' with you. Have fun

[Ghoti]

You are gay, i am sorry.
gayness is not a good thing though, in my book.
Do whatever but heed my words

[nick]

You are gay, i am sorry.
gayness is not a good thing though, in my book.
Do whatever but heed my words
Well thank you for your thoughtful insight. Homophobia is not a good thing in my book, or any other form of bigotry.

To gotanyDman I very much agree with what chequ3r has said above. It does sound as if you could well be gay, which in no way is a bad thing, but really if you're not sure time will tell. Your thoughts and emotions may change as you go through puberty. In the mean time if you are able to form a relationship with your friend then good for you mate.

[Ghoti]

thanks for agreeing, i thought you would be one of the angrier people. ;)

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