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[zebrainatree]

The other day me and my mate went on webcam just normal webcam, and he got talking about sex and al that, and he asked to get naked, so we both did, and i dont really mind becuse i do trust him, but after i felt weird, like i liked it - it was good, but i just felt odd after - is that normal? Thanks

[byee]

Aside from the risks of sending naked images of yourself over the internet, what you did might have felt 'weird' b/c eventhough it's online, it's still real, and getting naked with another person (esp. for the first time) is awkward, you're exposing yourself and there's a vulnerbility that goes along with that.

People often think that "just because" it's online it's different, that it somehow doesn't count, but what you're feeling suggests that it does. If you typically wouldn't say or do something in realtiy, it's a good indication that you shouldn't be doing (or saying) it online, either. Values and feeling remain the same, eventhough the medium might be different.

[zebrainatree]

Thats very helpful thanks mate - i think your right! Thanks :D

[Oren]

It's normal to feel curious. There's nothing wrong with it.

[ezduzit323]

i'd be real careful about getting on webcam. other people can record you and keep it. if you really trust him though, then i won't try to make you doubt that.

[Stevo 69]

I agree with the above post, be careful when on webcam, people can record it and could post it on the internet or show it to other people. But as long as you trust your friend, then feel free