i hurt myself

[griffince]

every time i make a mistake i bash and/or stab myself with anything i can find at dat time

[Triceratops]

Every time you make a mistake you feel the need to hurt yourself. Well everyone makes mistakes, there's nothing unusual about that. Take a step back, if you make a mistake try your best to just forget about it and start again. You don't deserve pain EVERY time you slip now, do you?

When you're feeling slighty angry at yourself for the errors you make, try your hardest not to take it out on yourself. If necessary, take your anger out on a stuffed animal, a pillow or something like that - just anything that's not harming YOU.

If you want to talk, PM me.

[griffince]

like i no its rong but i just cant stop myslef from doing its like an addiction i just cant stop dat easy ive tryed dats y i turn 2 this as my last resort

[Triceratops]

like i no its rong but i just cant stop myslef from doing its like an addiction i just cant stop dat easy ive tryed dats y i turn 2 this as my last resort

No one can stop just like that, and it's not easy at all. That's why we're here to help.

But what we can do is at least TRY to resist. The best help and support you are most likely to get is from a psychiatrist or a therapist so if you really struggle with this I suggest you see someone before it gets out of hand. :)

[griffince]

thanx ill try and ill kept in touch

[ErykaInspire.]

I know it's hard not to hurt yourself, but you just have to motivate yourself.
If you know that self-harm is wrong, then try to stop. Find something else to do, write your frustration on a piece of paper. Write a poem to make yourself think of writing instead of stabbing/bashing.
I'm here if you need anything.
PM me if you ever get the urge to hurt yourself again. I'll do the best I can to help you.
I've been there and I know how it feels, so feel free to PM me.

[griffince]

ill have been w/o hurting myself for 4 days but its gettin harder to not give in

[Project Delta]

Well done on 4 days dude, i know its hard but you can do it! just keep thinking possitive dude :)

[griffince]

thanz its gettin so hard i just wabt to do it but my mind says no, its like a drug

[Bluearmy]

Hurting yourself is worse then hurting others.

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

well hurting yourself hurts everyone around you not just you.

[Bluearmy]

well hurting yourself hurts everyone around you not just you.

My point exactly.

[griffince]

guys i did it again god im supid i just cant stop it.

[Beautiful Obsession]

your not stupid, you need help, you need to tell someone that can help you and that you can trust, you cant do this on your own:) when you want to cut, distract yourself with something that you enjoy to cheer you up.

of uu need to talk pm me:) x

[griffince]

thanx hollie.x ill try again but hard this time

[Bluearmy]

guys i did it again god im supid i just cant stop it.

You failed yourself again. Try your best to not do it agian. Cutting yourself might be a stupid act, but It does not make you stupid. If you keep putting yourself down you will allways be in the dumps.

[Project Delta]

I basically said that to him through a PM :) Was a long Pm, also griffince replace the unhappy faces withh smileys and make you feel better :)

[griffince]

guys iis been a week since my last cutting. but its hard not 2, but ive found a way 2 motovite myself

[kt2369]

i did that for a while but its only when my best friend upsets me

[griffince]

guys my motivation is going 2moz my motivation was getting betta coz i had 2 stiches in my knee now the stiches r gone ive lost my motivation

[griffince]

guys it happened again this time i made my knee (which just got stiches out) bleed bad i told my mum i slip over again so i dont disappoint her

[kt2369]

i did that for a while but now i am really trying to stop, i dont want to explain to my friends i have so many cuts.. its obvious

[griffince]

guys wat should i say to my parents, they askin bout my cuts

[Project Delta]

Why not tell them, and say your sorry and would like some help?

[griffince]

guys i did it again but this time my friends caught me

[Renegade.]

Hey, I think you should talk to someone about this, and get help with your cutting problem. It really starts to escalate into something you really don't want in your life, and I'd suggest talking to someone before it gets to hard to speak up about this. Hiding scars and getting caught isn't fun, talking might really help you. What did the friends say that found out? Would they willingly support you an help you be able to feel comfortable talking to someone about this, do you think?

[dstnyisurs]

Lovie, the whole business isn't good to be in. It's addicting and messy and dangerous and all this shit... It's just not good at all.
Getting help is important. If you have the resources and support system to get help then take advantage of them! Everyone makes mistakes and screws up. It's a part of life, but the trick is learning to tolerate not being perfect, because none of us are.

[rukia_yua]

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