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Agent
May 8th, 2009, 07:55 AM
Girls in my class just doesnīt like me. Iīm a little overweight and everytime I sit next to a girl in somewhere they just go away from me. We change our sitting places in our class every month and when the teacher tells them to sit next to me ,they are like "Oh shit, noooo!". They also always tell me to shut up and they always try to stay away from me.
And I donīt mean that a just one girl does this, every girl in our class does this.

I havenīt done anything bad at them and I try to be nice to them, but they never are nice to me. Anyone else at the same situation?

Music Lover
May 8th, 2009, 09:31 AM
Try asking one of the least critical ones why they avoid you and you will probably get an honest answer, and then you could start to try and fix it

to me, this would be the most obvious and easiest way to do it

NightFighter
May 8th, 2009, 10:27 AM
At school, its sad, but popularity is the most important thing in the world to some vain high school girls. If you are uncool then they wont talk to you, and if they arent cool then they will want to seem cooler by not talking to you.
That could be a reason why you are ignored.

Try not to let it bother you too much though. In time, when they grow up, they will want to know a guy like you. I know its not much comfort to you now but believe me it will get better as people mature. Just dont take it personally.

Agent
May 8th, 2009, 10:50 AM
Iīm actually known as a very cool and popular person within the boys of our class.

NightFighter
May 8th, 2009, 11:49 AM
hmmm.... sorry, i dont know why they would act like that then....
I suppose you should do what invalid teen 94 says and just ask a girl.
Sorry if i offended you though.

ashleighhxbby
May 8th, 2009, 01:01 PM
ask 'em.

Truth
May 8th, 2009, 02:59 PM
Why don't they like you? They're vain. Girls always did this to me because i was abit overweight, until middle school. (Elementary was hell) Now girls don't mind me, or they come and sit with me / ask me to come and sit with them or something some times. Just try to lose some weight, and be yourself.If it doesnt work, who cares? =]

bombasticdude
September 8th, 2009, 02:17 AM
ask 'em.

u dont need to ask anyone anything....dude....its not ur problem...its probably their problem...have some self esteem...stand up for urself and dont let anyone disrespect u..ur the man....and when u go to college things will actually change..those gurls u talkin abt...they r shallow and naive..have some faith in urlsef..and believe its not totally abt looks...just try to be neat and cool...other than that dont try that hard..cause there is nth in the world that deserves to be feel bad for...even a gurl...good luck mate...

Mlbactor73
September 8th, 2009, 04:36 PM
I ahve this situation too. But what i think to moyself everytime this happens: "someday, i'll meet the right one, and these contradictions wont mean anything when I meet her. You'll meet the right one soon!

Grey fox
September 8th, 2009, 04:50 PM
Maybe you smell or something?

LOL jokes, i'm sure you don't.

Girls are weird creatures, is ther any chance you could befriend a couple for helpful insights?

Kaleidoscope Eyes
September 8th, 2009, 06:32 PM
Please don't bump old threads, this one is 4 months old.
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