i lost her

[ackmedsgirl666]

i lost my bestfriend the one i cared so much about
her mom threw me out the door forever
me and my best friend r banned from seeing eachother
i still rele love her and i can't let her go no matter wut her mom says
what can i do
im desperate someone plz help?

[Viral Death]

Maybe you could txt or see her at school. Sorry to hear that moms can be mean. Let me know how things go and you can talk to me when ever you want to I am here for you!

Thanks,
Colton AKA Nice_Guy

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

I'm afraid I am going to lose my best friend soon. I don't know what I am going to do if my mom tells me that I can't see her again

[Viral Death]

Just tell her that you guys are friends and nothing will change that!

[BuryYourFlame]

i think you should try, before anything sneaky, calmly talking to her mum, to try and resolve the issue, ask her why she doesn't want you around etc....but make sure you do this in a calm manner, otherwise it could be seen as more of an attack...

Depression, Loss and Grief ---> Family & Friends (other mods/g-mods -feel free to reverse, im kinda new :P)

[ackmedsgirl666]

the thing is that even at school
it will make it ten times harder if i seer her at school for only a short period of time and after that i can't see her
she was supposed to leave for washington this morning
she never did unfortunately
i tried writing her mom anote, might this help my cause??

[BuryYourFlame]

yep, it is definitely worth it, keep us posted :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok so i tried the note writing
now luck at all
her mom wouldn't accept it
i just told my friend that we shud just chill for a few weeks and then see wut happens
maybe her mom might come through

[TigerLily]

I'm sorry the note didn't work :hug:
Hopefully her mum will change her mind eventually. Is there a particular reason she has banned your friend from seeing you?
All the best :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

i'm actually not exactly sure
it had something to do with something i had said to her mom's friend i think
otherwise i'm not totally sure

[Death]

If you're not sure then you need to ask. It would be downright out of order for them to not tell you what the hell's going on here and I'm sorry that your friend's mum refused to take a mere note; I'm sorry that any of this has happened. You need to know why thishas happened.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i wunder how i can do that
cuz i can't call my friend nemore or talk 2 her online
i'm wundering if we were actually meant to be friends at all
wut else sud i do??

[Bluearmy]

Try to appeal to the mom, Why were you thrown out?

Sometimes It would be best to just let her go. If you try and sneak to get her, I could bring alot of stress on you and her. And if her mom catches her talking to you, It could put her in hell.

Sometimes it's best just to let go.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i know
but the thing is is that we have been bestfriends for along time and we dated
her mom started disliking me when she realized that we we're sneaking around( it was our 2 mth anniversary at the time) before we finally came out to her
i possibly think that this is a reason also
* i still kinda like her*
which is why i haven't let go of her yet

[Bluearmy]

If the mom is persistant, you're only going to make things worse the more times you try to see her. Both for you and her.

Eventually you will get caught. It's best to just not cry over spilled milk and let her go. YOu will get over it.