View Full Version : Help don't know what to do anymore :(
Miss Punk
May 7th, 2009, 04:04 PM
ARGH I am feeling so frustrated!!!!!! I am so angry with myself, why can't I deal with my problems like a normal person, I don't even know how to do that anymore, instead of cutting!!! I don't know how to get myself out of this mess, I feel so trapped. I'm failing completely at school and I need to talk to a teacher because I am not coping with with work and exam pressure, and none of my teachers know I have a problem so it would be a load off my mind just to get some help, but every time I get close to asking a teacher if I can talk to them, I get nervous and don't say it. Half the time it seems like all the problems are created by my own head, which leads to it all turning into real problems. I hate myself, I wish everything could go away!!! :(
Char_x
May 7th, 2009, 04:57 PM
Aaw, i really know how you feel so i'd be completly rubbish at giving advice on this. Although its hard, rly try your best just to talk to one of the teachers, maybe one of the teachers that you get on well with most cos it would probably help so much and wud maybe take a weight off your shoulders cos then they wud probably understand more why you arnt workin as well and will be more than willing to help.
Sorry if its crap advice but like i say, i kinda know how you feel cos im at college and failing badly and i keep wanting to tell one of the tutors just so i can talk to someone but everytime i pluck up the courage i just cant, its so hard. Its hard as well cos like im a girl and we have 3 tutors who are all men and i just dont think they'd understand, i'd probs find it easier to talk to a woman tutor but we aint got one so im probably just guna keep it to myself. Hope you manage to sort something out anyway :) x
Rutherford The Brave
May 7th, 2009, 05:01 PM
Look first off let me approach the cutting. I know its some way to escape and I did it before (Just telling you, so you dont call me a hypocrite.) But stress seems to come from cutting, so try not to. Also the whole teacher situation, goes as follows, they will tell you if your failing and tell you to ocme after. GO after school, trust me just do it! They love kids that try and they can help you, lets say your on the brink of failing literally and you keep going back, they will be more opt to giving a passing grade to someone who tried to get it.
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