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yrina
May 5th, 2009, 05:08 AM
I have this friend for almost ten years. She is sexy and pretty. what surprised when she had a lesbian boyfriend. Now, they're already off. I'm just confuse if the saying is true. Once girl had a relationship to a lesbian, then she is a lesbian too? Is it true? If my friend is a lesbian, I don't know how to interact with her anymore. It will not be easy to me.
ShatteredWings
May 5th, 2009, 05:55 AM
Explain what a 'lesbian boyfriend' is.. and more people might be able to help.


If your friend is with a girl, then she's with another girl, and you kinda have to accept her for what she is.
Sceneboy612
May 5th, 2009, 08:09 PM
;505184']Explain what a 'lesbian boyfriend' is.. and more people might be able to help.


If your friend is with a girl, then she's with another girl, and you kinda have to accept her for what she is.

I agree, it is VERY hard to understand... can you put things easier
AllThatIsLeft
May 5th, 2009, 09:35 PM
I have lots of lesbian friends.
there isn't anything different about them than any other friend. you shouldn't find it hard to be their friend, no matter what sex they like.


and as for if she's a lesbian, i have no clue what you are asking at the moment, explain better?
INFERNO
May 5th, 2009, 09:46 PM
What is a "lesbian boyfriend"? I'm not following.

You're acting as though she'll be some sort of foreign creature when in reality, it's the same friend you've had for 10 years, just now you've slapped on a fancy label for her (lesbian, if she indeed is one). It's not like she's likely to go and try to have sex with you right away, I'm sure she's known for more time than you have about her and your sexual orientations and made no fuss about it, so why should you be kicking up the dirt?
RandomChick242
May 6th, 2009, 10:38 PM
First off, what's a "Lesbian boyfriend"? Second of all, if it's another girl then she may be a lesbian or bi Third, either way you'll just have to accept it if she is, I mean, she's still the same person you've known for the past 10 years, and if you dobn't you'll probably end up losing a valuable friend. Besides it's not like she'll try to rape you or anything =__= lol If she's like me then she won't do anything to you besides comment about how hot someone is or something lol