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pavement
May 5th, 2009, 02:52 AM
The only way I can come is if I lie face down on a bed with my hands around my crotch, and move my pelvis back and forth until I get orgasm. This is the way I discovered how to masterbate when I was younger, and for some reason I can't come when I do it the normal way by stroking my hands up and down my penis. I have tried it several times and for some reason it does not work.

I am seventeen, and my GF and I have been together for a few months, and we both plan on losing our virginity soon to each other. Though, I am worried that I won't be able to ejaculate unless I masterbate the way I stated above.

Help?

frothinsam
May 5th, 2009, 05:43 AM
when u think about it the way u described u masturbate and the way u have sex are pretty similar.

and when u have sex for the first time ur gonna cum its sex

iJoel
May 5th, 2009, 06:19 AM
When you masturbate you think and imagine sex. When you are having sex, your having sex. You will on instinct cum if it is reality not imagination, so don't worry. In that sort of situation you will be able too cum doing anything.

HelloWorld123456
May 5th, 2009, 06:27 AM
as for sex , your gf will be impressed if you dont cum fo rlike say 30 minutes ... sex is all abot cumming slow .. if you cum fast, it may take all the fun so ... cumming slower during sex is a good thing :D ..

questionboy
May 5th, 2009, 07:15 AM
The only advice I can give is to not masturbate at least a week before:D
you would have built up a fair amount of semen within a weeks time ;)

it will impress your girlfriend in some kinda way :yummy:

pontiacdriver
May 5th, 2009, 01:54 PM
The only way I can come is if I lie face down on a bed with my hands around my crotch, and move my pelvis back and forth until I get orgasm. This is the way I discovered how to masterbate when I was younger, and for some reason I can't come when I do it the normal way by stroking my hands up and down my penis. I have tried it several times and for some reason it does not work.

I am seventeen, and my GF and I have been together for a few months, and we both plan on losing our virginity soon to each other. Though, I am worried that I won't be able to ejaculate unless I masterbate the way I stated above.

Help?

You masturbate in the prone position, and it is a perfectly normal to masturbate and is just as good as the the traditional fist method. I know that there are websites out there that claim that prone mastubating is harmful or claim that guys who do it cannot be as flexible sexually, but that is all conjecture and not true. When you really think about it prone masturbation mimicks sex very closely, and if anything you will be quite prepared to have sex with your girlfriend rather than not being prepared. Basically, don't switch your method if what you do is really comfortable, and you will do fine with sex as you will surely ejaculate. Sex, like masturbating, takes practice, and both you and your girlfriend are going to have learning curves. With that being said your method of masturbating right now will not negatively impact your ability to have sex, and you will do just fine.

pavement
May 5th, 2009, 05:45 PM
Thanks guys, all of you. I feel better now than I did before

Tubbsyclone
May 5th, 2009, 11:21 PM
in regards 2 the prone postition being harmful yes it mimics sex but in sex u dont put as much pressure on the base of ur penis then when u masterbate in the prone position. i dont think its harmful unless u put a lot of pressure on it while u masterbate

TheCatDied
May 6th, 2009, 12:33 AM
You should be able to have a ejaculation in a prone position. I would just keep at it until you do. Just if you are curious if whether or not you can do it. I would be.