How to ''approach'' a girl you dont know

[vito22andolini]

Hi everyone , i know there may be like 10000 treads like this but i decided to make one :whoops:

I see a girl in my school every day but i don't know realy how to come up and talk to her cause i dont realy know her . i mean...what could i say ? and how can i ask her out?

**** im feeling stupid lol

[byee]

You're right, this does come up a lot! Here's my simple answer: Try to not be distracted by your own feelings and urges, try not to get too far ahead of the story, and try to remember that she's just a person.

So, not shooting for the moon here, AND sorta ignoring your own arousal and interest, just walk up to her and smile broadly, make really good eye contact, and just say "Hi!". If you're feeling brave, you can even compliment her on something (girls like that, and there's not much risk to it).

Approach her each day the same way, remembering to make it short, complimentary, and to the point. Sooner or later, you'll both feel comfortable making more small talk (or, you'll get the message that she's totally uninterested). Build up to it slowly, don't rush, and see what happens. usually after people break the ice, you know if it clicks or not pretty fast.

Most guys freak themselves out b/c they respond to their urges and want to go for it immediately, ask them out, and they just aren't quite there yet. It takes time to get to that place, which is a good thing, b/c it's much easier to talk small and make a connection on easy stuff, then it is to go for it right away.

[pcd31]

Do you have any classes or lunch with her?

[lesher]

Quoting pcd31 question :P

[vito22andolini]

we have lunch at the same time but not at the same place ... i mean in the same cafeteria but at different places

[yoyoyo12]

hmmm kay this is actually suprisingly easy..


okay so what you gotta doooo isss set your self up.

FIRST things FIRST.

appearance. you gotta make sure youre appealing
wear nice clothes you know do what ever you gotta do to look your best.
i prepare my self for this daily by making sure i do ANYWAY.. regardless of the girls.. i just wanna look good..


Second.
DO NOT STARE HER DOWN, or randomly talk to her.


you have to establish grounds first.

1) get the girl to even NOTICE you
2) get her to notice you AGAIN
3) one more time get her to notice you
lol 3 times should be good enuff for her to remember you
as you get her to notice you dont make it seem like you want her to... make it subtle and seem casual as if youre just livin your life.. gotta have that little swagger going on too you know... do whatever to make yourself appealing!


Third.
set up a meeting.


its not as hard as it seems.. all you gotta do really is get YOURSELF into a situation to talk to her. ORRR get her and yourself into a situation to get her to talk to YOU.. if this girl will ever want you... shell talk to you first trust me. Just gotta give her the opportunity... if you ever see her drinking at the fountain? that could be a chance... or buying a drink... or chips.. or something... stand next to her drop some money... comment on it something like "ohh whoops dropped ma money!" smile :) start a light conversation just as you get your shit.... as you stand up obviously introduce your self "be like btw my names ######, nice to meet ya! but i gotta go, this might get awkward if i stay any longer" or something to get her to laugh, make sure you smile :) aswell and say someting like "take care!" or "see ya" and bam! u had ur first conversation with the broad!


that was just an example.. but like u get the point.

NEXT.
the more you see her around, give her little nods, smiles, what ever.....

Lastly, get her facebook ahaha or something and start talking to the bitty even more.. and youre SET!


remember all girls want one thing! C***!
hahaha joking!
but seriously rememeber that all girls that seem unapproachable are putting on the act.. they go home at the end of the day too and if theyr single.. chances are they dont do much with other guys! so youve got a chance with ANY GIRL!

jus set. it. up.

bro im 16 its not hard!