experimenting and friends

[TDBRLA]

How can experimentation affect a friendship?:confused:

[Silent]

Well 1 way is if you are experimenting with a friend and it goes wrong for whatever reason you could ruin the relationship.

[ezduzit323]

you're taking a chance when you do. i've masturbated with 4 of my friends and am still great friends with 3 of them. the other one got uncomfortable and we don't hang out anymore. you just have to ask urself if experimenting with your friends is worth the risk.

[samscouse]

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[Skuzzy]

Uhhh thanks for the storie but...


NO

[timster]

Usually both people would have a good time while they are doing it, but afterwards on the next day of school, they might not feel comfartable around you. This could be because they are ashamed at what they did with you the other day. Just make sure you can really trust the person that you experiment with. When i experiment i usually do it over long holidays and we don't really remember when we get back to school and that helps. Most people wouldn't tell anyone about your experimentations so you shouldn't have to worry about that. But the bottom line is to really make sure you can trust that person deeply.

[Stark]

Well, it could make it a bit awkward between you, all your friend might be able to think about is you naked.

[marktheman]

I think sometimes afterwards one of the guys might start to feel guilty or embarrassed about what he did and feel very uncomfortable facing the other guy. Experimenting can be loads of fun when everybody is horny but when the horniness wears off you have time to reflect and thats when you start to wonder if what you did was right.
I experiment a lot with my best friend but we've been friends for over 5 years and we know each other real well and are very close.

[Konnor]

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dam...im jealous

[Specter]

It could ruin the friendship, but then again it could also make it stronger.

[cool7189403]

My friend and I last weekend started to J/O on a sleep over... and it turned to a BJ, and he said that this weekend he wants to try something else... but i'm not sure i wanna do that...

[Astrayed]

Me and my friend have done many things in the past, We stopped being friends really and he just used me when he got horny, That worked well for me cos he turned out to be a complete twat, I don't get with him now because he doesn't want to cheat on his BF even tho he has been for a long time..

Anyway I had a good time with him and he came to me cos he thought I was gay and such, Its great when we do it tho and i don't regret it as much as before, I wouldn't like getting with guys if it weren't for him and sometimes I wish I didn't do it in the first place but I like it and iv'e been told im a awsome sucker so its all good lol.

In the end you take a risk, Chances are once you get past the awquard bit you can be mates again, Just make sure you both want it even when your not horny and that may stop the guilt side of it.. Good luck :)

[Donkey]

Awkwardness
Embarrassed around each other.
For the above reason, may then seperate.
Then affects friendships you both have with others.
You find yourself in a bad situation with your friends.

[miromiro]

Make sure the other person feels ok j\o with ya. if u ask him he freaks out u can say i was just joking :D

[confusedand14]

It could make things really awkward, but everybody has already said that. If he says no, don't push him, that definitely can make things bad. And sometimes when it's done it is you that is all weirded out by it, not them. Just be careful and make sure everybody is comfortable with it.

[alphabeta]

Things can get really awkward after which could ruin the friendship.

[The Dodge]

Well there's guilt, and there's just pure awkwardness.