Flirting

[Glasgow]

Hey, I was looking around at some peoples topics and posts and I noticed that some guys don't know how to flirt (including me)

So can somebody please post some tips here on how to flirt with a girl. The only thing that i can think of is to make her laugh, im fairly good at that, but what other methods are there?

[evw93]

Yeah, how do you flirt well?

[redcar]

i dunno i think that flirting is not something that can really be explained and taught. i think you just need to your self. thats the main thing. after that i dont know wat really to say. sorry!

[Jackie]

About the flirting thing, I'd say there are a few different levels of flirting, depending on the relationship between two people.
The flirting that takes place between two people who aren't going out is generally not sex related, it's just making them laugh, and being really nice. So if you liked someone and wanted to get some gentle flirting going on, you could say note her birthday and get her a present and card, but make sure you're smiling when you give it to her :) She'll love the fact that you took notice. Try and go out of your way to make her smile through jokes, gifts (but not all the time), and lots of smiling and eye contact.

[forestfire20]

yea thats a gppd idea try to make her smile i mean smiles do mean happy right?

[Bagle_worm]

heh, I'm a gril in a relationship and I have a problem with flirting.

I'm just a naturally kind, caring, open, and touchy-feely person. A lot of people think I flirt with all my guy friends, but really I'm just being myself.
Lucky me, I have an understanding boyfriend. -grin-

There is no definition for flirting, no one set way to do it. Commonly, it involves a lot of nice smiles, sometimes a bit of touching (hand on shoulder, that sort of thing). Making her laugh is a start, but sadly in High School that's all that people do. EVERYONE lives to make other people laugh. -grumble-

But we're getting into my own problems. Back to yours.

School dances are great for pushing a relationship to the next step. It's amazing what one casual slow dance will do to speed things up. Oh, and don't be a stalker. Don't try to follow her around, don't plan for accidential meetings. The less she sees of you, them more special and interesting the times she DOES see you will get.

Lastly, be yourself. There's nothing worse than a bad actor trying to be cool, spinning unbeleivable stories about his weekend and whatnot. I gaurentee she will not be impressed.

[c.a.182]

omg boys ask me this all the time! and my friend is over so maybe we can hep!

one secret would be act like you know somthing they don't know by smiling and having a sly look. dont say you know somthing they dont though. Also dont be all jittery and nervous shes your friend right? feel comfortable with her!

hope this helps

[Glasgow]

omg boys ask me this all the time! and my friend is over so maybe we can hep!

one secret would be act like you know somthing they don't know by smiling and having a sly look. dont say you know somthing they dont though. Also dont be all jittery and nervous shes your friend right? feel comfortable with her!

hope this helps

Hmm. well the thing about knowing something that she doesnt know is trouble for me. cuz im such an honest person and cant keep a secret. But I already have some girls that like me, but there is this one girl, that used to like me, now doesnt anymore. its a long story, but i want her to like me again. So umm I guess i should go back to normal. shy and not talking to anyone :P but then again thats sort of hard for me cuz i love talking to the ladies. anyways thanks for the advice c.a

[DouggyO.o]

u cant be taught how to flirt, its a natural reation

[Aηdy]

it sort of comes naturally really its very hard to explain how to do it aswell

[Peanut Butter]

man is it natural with me, I flirt and dont notice it sometimes. someone will say you were so flirting and i will be like OMG I was. If i like someone i naturally flirt. Some are gifted with it some are not. I also want to tell you if you like a girl but have not talked about it. and you smile alot, if she likes you, she should smile alot. If this happens I would suggest Winking.

[c.a.182]

totally agreed about all of it^!

and i wouldnt recomend not talking unknown lol (from ur comment) that might not give off the best vibe to the grlie u like. and yea smile alot and make funny (and nice) faces during class and stuff