Helpppp!! boy situation

[ashleighhxbby]

So theres this guy and he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me at least 3 times in the past couple days..he has a girlfriend and they had broken up on saturday - 5/2/2009 - and he told me all that stuff, about how he loved me and how he wanted to be with me, but then I got tired of waiting and asked him when was he gonna freaking ask me out... he replied i cant and told me he was back with his girlfriend. -5-3-2009, or last night - Should I wait for him? I've known him since early february and i was truly falling in love with him. He knows i am and he feels the same.

All my friends are saying that if he's willing to do this to his current girlfriend he's gonna be willing to do it to you.

please helppp?? advice pleaseee? should I wait for him??




Edit: We live in different cities... i live like 3-4 hours away from him, so I really do like him alot. last night, i even did something I hadnt done in forever because of him. just think about it and you'll realize.
thanks again,
ash

[Loislane]

Personally, I think if he loved you as much as what he is saying, then he would leave his girlfriend for you. But he hasn't.
I wouldn't wait around. You only live life once, and you're going to waste you're time waiting for him. Go out and enjoy yourself, you're only 14! That's my age.

If you truley do like him, confront him with what i said on the first line. Ask him, 'If you love me so much, why do you continue to go out with that other girl?' Or 'If you love me so much, why don't you dump her?'

Good luck! I understand it's hard, I went through the same situation.

[Beautiful Obsession]

well in my opinion - he is leadin you on. sorry bt i think he is. think about it, if he really did love you and want to be with you as much as he's saying then he just wouldnt get back together with his ex girlfriend. hes obviously sayin the same things to his current girlfriend - i think hes tryin to be the boy that everyone likes.

I would wait around i would move on bbe because he really doesnt sound worth it!
and if he would do this to his girlfriend he wud obv do it to you.

:) x

[ashleighhxbby]

thanks for the advice (: it really helps, but I still am not exactly sure what to do. anyone else got any more advice?

[Specter]

I’m ganna have to agree with Hollie.X, this guy is just leading you on, not to mention that long distance relationships are hard to work out. Personally I don’t think you should wait for him.

[ashleighhxbby]

He isnt. He talks to my friend about it. He really does like me, but why would he leave a girl there for someone whos not?

Its just..complicated.. what should I tell him though? What would be a good thing to say to express how I'm feeling??

[Truth]

Is'nt worth it, in my opinion. No online relationships are.

[ashleighhxbby]

it isnt online... :/ we talk on the phone and text aaaaalllllllllllllllll the time... i dunno..

[BuryYourFlame]

if you do truly believe that he loves you, then you need to confront him about his existing girlfriend. but i also sorta agree with your friends, just like the saying: never trust a double agent. if he is telling two girls he loves them at the same time...then there isn't much stopping him from doing it again...

[ashleighhxbby]

im pretty much over it. i found someone else lol. I dunno.. i still kinda like him.