I fail at cutting

[cool person]

Woo hoo, just cut for the first time in 8 days. I really thought I was done for good. I don't really think I'm gonna try stopping again right now...I just can't deal with feeling down, I need to stay focused on school and not be distracted with my emotions. O well. I'll give stopping for good another shot, come summer.

[Triceratops]

I'm glad to hear you have the willpower to resist cutting, however, please use it.

You need to try stopping, it benefits everything so much. You have the courage and resistance to banish cutting out of your life, so please make the right choice. Everyone hates feeling down but there ARE ways to deal with bad moods sensibly such as talking to someone you trust such as a good freind or a family member, talking to a counsillor, listening to music, watching your favorite TV show/movie, eating your favorite snack, playing your favorite sport, drawing, painting, writing, reading etc. There are so many good ways to lift your spirits up without hurting yourself, just give them a shot.

Also, stay focused to school work and grades, NOT cutting. This is a good thing to do as it benefits your near future greatly, which cutting does not.

Good luck with everything, and remember, you CAN resist cutting in the meantime. :)

[ashleighhxbby]

Woo hoo, just cut for the first time in 8 days. I really thought I was done for good. I don't really think I'm gonna try stopping again right now...I just can't deal with feeling down, I need to stay focused on school and not be distracted with my emotions. O well. I'll give stopping for good another shot, come summer.


I think that you should try stopping again, but to quote a good movie:
"do or do not there is no try"
I think that you should just trust God in your situation and pray everytime you get the tempation to cut.

I'm praying for you and I hope you make the right decision.

:],
ashleigh

[cool person]

Thanks guys.

Marshki_Maggotpop:
I try most of those things, and I think that is responcible from keeping me from falling apart, even more. But just some times that is just not enough.
My grades aren't really an issue right now... There really isn't anyone I can talk to. The only person who knows that I cut thinks I stopped. Besides she has way more problems than I do right now, so even though she told me to call before I did anything, I really hate being a burden to others.

Thanks ashleighhxbby for your prayer..I just don't feel that religious at the moment.


I'll really consider trying to stop again. I just don't know if I have it in me at the moment. I guess I don't really know If I see the point

[Beautiful Obsession]

you really shouldnt carry on cutting for a while and then try stoppin when you feel like it because.. im guessin. by then you will be even more addicted to cutting than you are now. and it will always be. oh i will stop tomorrow. or the day after that etc..

i know you need to be focused on your school work and all that but your health is still more important. please talk to someone and get help..
Good luck :) x

[cool person]

yeah, that is the hard part, I know the longer I keep at it, the harder it will be to stop. On the other hand, I think that mabye if I try to stop when summer starts, I will be off school, alot of my friends will be back from college...etc. It will be easier because everythig else in my life will be different..

As of right now my cutting isn't so serious that it really is getting in the way of my health, but I know what you mean.

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

You have to learn to deal with things now though Rami, if you don't when hard situations arise and stress comes again your just going to give in again. I know you can fight this! I believe in you! You got what it takes man! You can do this! I know it's hard but you can fight this! You said that you didn't really have anyone to talk to anymore about this...well I am here...always...give me a call or PM me...If I can stop this...I know you can! We can stop together!

[cool person]

You have to learn to deal with things now though Rami, if you don't when hard situations arise and stress comes again your just going to give in again. I know you can fight this! I believe in you! You got what it takes man! You can do this! I know it's hard but you can fight this! You said that you didn't really have anyone to talk to anymore about this...well I am here...always...give me a call or PM me...If I can stop this...I know you can! We can stop together!

Thanks :)

I meant people offline, I know I can always talk to you :)

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

I am always here for you man! I wish I could be there in person for ya...but I can't. I am only a phone call or email away though...

[cool person]

Just hop on a plain out to california lol. jk. I'm always there for you aswell :).

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

Thanks! That means a lot to me, to know that someone is there, because I don't have any support at home really.

[cool person]

Thanks! That means a lot to me, to know that someone is there, because I don't have any support at home really.

I've just given up on trying to talk to my perants about my feelings. It often turns into a fight, and I am so done with having huge fights, been dealing with them as long as I can remember.

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

I have tried to explain that to everyone because they want me to tell my parents about the cutting thing but I just can't