Asking her 'out'

[asdhaklsjdh]

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[WoW_GOD]

It seems you're going good, just don't back out because I've had that idea to ask someone out and I ended up backing out : /

gl and keep us updated :)

[IAMWILL]

Ok, well this is a risk...

I've dealt with slutty girls before, so I know how you feel and what situation you're in. I'll tell you right now, she doesn't like you, nor does have a crush on you, must likely, this is just based on how you described her. If you go to the movies tomorrow, I wouldn't ask her out. You need a little more time to asses her before you ask her out, because as it seems she'll say yes and you'll be stuck in a meaningless relationships that will end as an overdramatic cry fest.

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[Hobbes]

If you are using pejoratives to describe her right off the bat, then she is probably not the girl for you. The right girl is one that you have good things to say about.

[INFERNO]

I've been speaking to this girl for a couple of months now, on msn, myspace and SMS. I'm going to the cinema with her tomorrow, and we have expressed the same feelings for each other.

I have been flirting with her and she is flirting back, but she is a bit of a slut and it may just be normal conversation for her (:p). She has recently been rejected by another boy, but also says that she 'loves' me.

We're seeing each other at the cinema tomorrow, (casually) and I'm thinking about asking her 'out' as my girlfriend. It seems an ideal time and place to do it, I'm just not sure about some of the mentioned
signs.

Any advice?

Thanks,

- Jack.

People tend to toss around the phrase "I love you" so often, especially amongst teenagers, it loses its true meaning. Seeing as how you describe her as being a slut and unsure on her motives, asking her out and going with her likely won't lead anywhere good and an unstable relationship. To avoid the future mess, you can still go out with her to the cinema, however, no need to ask her out.

[bobtom]

Ok, well this is a risk...

I've dealt with slutty girls before, so I know how you feel and what situation you're in. I'll tell you right now, she doesn't like you, nor does have a crush on you, must likely, this is just based on how you described her. If you go to the movies tomorrow, I wouldn't ask her out. You need a little more time to asses her before you ask her out, because as it seems she'll say yes and you'll be stuck in a meaningless relationships that will end as an overdramatic cry fest.

I know someone who is going out with a slutty girl right now...

We all warned him... (I give them a week and they will break up)

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[lesher]

I wonder how did you know if she was slutty...?

Yeah, I agree with your decision and IAMWILL's advice

[Beautiful Obsession]

if u see her as a "slut" do you really want to go out with her? i dont think she would be best please knowing thats how you seee her. I Know i wouldn't.

and if you want to ask her out just say it. dont plan it because it will go wrong. trust me. and dont back out. if you want to go out with her. its the only way:) x

[asdhaklsjdh]

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