o_O major confusion

[lxl]

ok so ive been crushing on this guy for like awhile... (this whole school year?)
anyways he claims to be straight but he's always around a lot of girls and not much guys... and the voice tone seems also "gay" u know what i mean?
i dont know whether to let it go b/c there's no chance, or what... im confused...
i would've made friends with him but i suck at talkin to guys that i like :P

[iJoel]

Wow, I exactly have the same situation. This guy, talks and walks and acts gay. But we cannot define people because of there personality traits. Though the way I am going about it is just to advertise to the guy as much as I can that I like him, if he signals back then I guess I'll just go with the flow.

But of course, I am not overly thinking about it. Just give it time and he will show his true colours and if not, then its a miss for him ay?

[confusedboy]

Dude I'm in the same spot. There are a few cute guys who I can't tell but may seem like they're gay. Sucks! :P

[Sceneboy612]

Wow, there is alot of people like you, like the posters above, i have the same problem...

But you cant tell if someone is actually gay unless you ask, or have a friend do it for you, so good luck with whatever you do =]

[MoveAlong]

if he's "hee hee hee!" with the girls then he's probably gay (being friends with them)
If he's "hey hey hey" with the girls, then he's probably straight (flirting with them)

Just because he has a feminine tone doesn't mean he's gay. I know this guy that's sorta femme but I'm pretty sure he's straight (which sucks, cause he's HOT lol)

But anyway, there's no real way for us to tell because we haven't met him. Personally, I want to stay in the closet, so I wouldn't make a move, but if you really want something, maybe you should go for it.

[INFERNO]

A feminine tone does not equate to homosexuality. It may sometimes but it does not all the time, so forget about judging him on his voice. If he's around girls a lot, then either he is heterosexual or he is homosexual but enjoys the company of girls. Regardless of the label you give him, it seems that there is a possibility for having a relationship with him.