Is my friend gay?

[idk4]

I have a friend that is always telling me things like "I love you" or maybe he throws kisses at me in the middle of the class. Last week he did a "cock check" and touch my dick in the middle of the class. Does he likes me or is he just playing around?

[HelloWorld123456]

I would say he is definately gay .. But .. Look maybe he is just fooling around .. my friends and i there is kind of a gay day (no offence intended) .. where we would all act like so .. we do not mean so truly .. like throwing kisses because we (atleast I) do not intend any sexual thing .. it is only a way of acting .. in a way ..

but does he do it regularly ? and on purpose ?

[pcd31]

I mess around with my friends and pretend to be gay but they all know I'm straight and I don't go that far. I mess with them physically and just try to creep them out, your friend is just plainly being gay with the kisses and stuff.

[Cloud Spinner]

maybe he's just fooling around coz my friends sometimes touches our dicks when we're not looking ...but with the kiss stuff (i dont think so) but still ,dont change your attitude towards him..

[idk4]

he does stuff like that kind of regularly but I guess that he is just fooling around because sometimes depends on what he is doing he says stuff like "no home". Thank you for your opinions

[Sceneboy612]

I think that he is playing around... or is trying to send a signal to you... but if he was gay, i dont think he would be so open to being so. or he might be gay, and he wants you to do the same back... but you cant really know until you ask, and people on here cant tell you he is gay, because no-one knows who he really is.

[Leprachaun]

just ask him, if he gets defensive just say you were joking.

[idk4]

thank you for all your opinions, I am just going to ask him and if he get's bothered by my question i will tell him that it was joking.

[byee]

Well, throwing kisses to you/touching your penis in public isn't a 'gay' thing, it doesn't so much indicate his sexuality, as much as it demonstrates how inappropriate he is!

You should tell him to stop this behavior, as you not only don't appreciate it, but also that in all liklihood he's making a complete ass of himself, too. As an added bonus, you might ask him why on earth he's doing this, too.

Someone's sexuality is NOT determined by their actions only, it's more about their intent, where they're coming from, what they mean. Your friend just sounds clueless about how out of line his behavior is and what it looks like, to you and everyone else who sees it.

[LUCKY555]

he is probably joking....me and my friends touch each other all the time...but none of us are gay....well im bi but that is not the point they are not.

[jeforey3]

he might be joking at myschool there are guys that always play around like that

[House]

He does this only to you ? Maybe you should ask him :)

[idk4]

If I think about it, he only does that to me. I appreciate all of your opinions and suggestions. I decided that I'm going to ask him.