Too F***en shy man :@

[HelloWorld123456]

I fancy a very hawt girl .. i mena she's like number one sexiest from the whole school ... nice ... sweet .. funny :wub:.. .. and she is single :eek::eek: .. we do chatt online and on msn .. but when we're close to near each other ... i like escape ? WTF??!:what: ... when i see her i move far away as possible for her .. i like her lots and lots but .. i am really shy ..:( firstly i dont think i ve got a chance with her .. I am a llotz shy :(.. and I WANNA SO BAD TALK TO HER ! I am like wtf?! i am doing i want to talk to her .. i dont know if she likes me ..

what the crap shall i do .. i wanna so talk to her .. :what::(

[lesher]

Hey3, easy there... Remember, just talk casually to her like "hi", or "how are you?" or something simple like that first... No need to be shy if you're just talking to her like that...
I said this because I know, I was in your current position before, and it sucks, seriously. But if you don't try talking to her ASAP (but no hurry, coz I believe it can lead to stupid and awkward situation), someone could get her faster than you... And, you're going to blame urself for the rest of your life (that if you don't get anyone better than her)

I've done with this "casual" stage, but I'm on next stage problem :)

[HelloWorld123456]

Today i smiled to her and she smiled back .. does this mean something ?

[Stevo 69]

You are like me a lil, I little while ago I liked someone, I talked to her on msn for like 2 hours a day but when I would go to talk to her my mind just seemed to switch off and I couldn't get any words out.

You just gotta be brave, best way to do this is get a convo going, start by saying "hi" and "how are you?" and see how it goes from there.

[HelloWorld123456]

yeah but if i am given a hugr no .. dont wanna be brken hearted anymore .. not another time ! ..

Similing can be a sign of something ?

[IAMWILL]

Oh this is classic.

First of all, just being constructively critical, tawkling lik dis isn t taht col. Sorry, its just a little irritating on the eyes.

Otherwise though, just a few thoughts here. Do you really like her for who she is, or what she seems to be. Being attractive to beautiful girls is normal, but liking them when all you have seen is the outside of them is where you need to step back and take another look. I somewhat believe that you may only like her for her looks and what her personality seems to be. Getting on though...

You're just a little shy and worried that you will be rejected or not welcomed most likely because other boys in your school have girlfriends or such, its totally normal. One thing almost all boys don't notice is that no matter how "high ranking" so to speak (even though ranking should not exist at all) a girl is she feels nearly the same as guys do when they like someone. They're shy and worried. If you keep that in mind, you should be able to stay calm, and CALM = GOOD.

Now, a smile is always a good thing, but its so general, it really has no specific meaning. Just see what develops, and keep us updated.

[lesher]

No, smiling is just normal response from anyone without physical or mental disorder (I'm having that disorder, but I'm trying to repair it now)

dont wanna be brken hearted anymore .. not another time ! ..
Anymore? You've tried to talked to someone before?

Anyway, if you're so shy, I've got 2 suggestion for you (hopefully it can help):
- Think hard whether you want to be with her for real or not. Do you really love her? Or just a crush?
- After you've decided, do what you must, forget that shyness! Kill that shyness!! :D

[INFERNO]

OP, can you please type coherently? Typing in the way that you to me shows immaturity, which makes me think that this is how you act out in real life. So, for the sake of everyone, type coherently please.

Smiling back when someone smiles at you is a social norm, social script, etc..., so it's far too ambiguous.

What do you two talk about online? Say, it's about homework or a course. In real life, why not do the same to talk about common ground? It's common for many people, male and female, to be shy when approaching someone they fancy. You don't need to start off like a bold knight, but rather with a simple, straight-to-the-point greeting. Chances are many people fancy her and talk to her, so you being nervous probably isn't anything amazingly new. What would be better for you to do is to interact with her without considering her body, just her personality, her behavior. If she's good-looking then she probably gets oggled enough and receives enough compliments on her appearance. Giving those compliments probably triggers the "oh, another guy, lame" routine for her. So ignore her body, going for her because of her personality is deeper, probably something she'd like.

[bobtom]

I remember a year or two ago I did the sam thing to some hot girl. :)

But eventually I got over it. And now I spend most of my day flirting with girls. :D