Two girls I like that are best friends

[Jonathan M.]

OK so like I said there are two girls that I like but there best friends! :(

So 1 of them are in my class while the other isn't.I'm starting to think I like the one that isn't in my class more now but i still likevthe other and I think if I ask out her best friend the one in my class won't really be my friend anymore because she might think its ackward.So really I want to ask out the one thats not in my class but she still might say no we have been getting closer though and people at my school always start rumors about who likes who and somebody told me she likes me!WOW this crap is ANNOYING!!! :(

So what do yall think?Will she think its ackward?Will she probably say yes?

[Requin]

This isn't puberty related so, moving to R & D. Just for the record I don't have any experience in that area so it would be dangerous for me to give advice. :)

[lesher]

So both 2 girl you like are best friends? I never thought that someone is in a same position like me!! Except for the part "somebody told me she likes me".

Well, what I do is take a long thinking about adv/disadv for each person, and who do you really like. Even though you like both of them, there must be 1 of them that you really like. Because nobody is same... Trust me, think hard (really really hard) first, act later

If you decided, try to put your love feeling to her. And about the other person, try to put lesser love feeling (until it disappear) for her... If they're real best friends, no matter who you choose, the other one won't be jealous, and she will be happy because her best friend is happy. Oh, If you don't understand some part because of my bad english, feel free to ask

[Jonathan M.]

thanks i understood it all and sorry for having it in the wrong place thats a good idea THANKS!!!

[lesher]

Good luck for you man! Hope you get your love!

[Jonathan M.]

man im still wondering if she likes me....i've been walking her home from our recreation center and today she said she doesnt understand y everyone thinks were going out just because we hang out asking her out was on the tip of my tongue but i didn't :(

just thought i'd keep you updated!

[INFERNO]

To make it easier to understand which girl we're talking about, for the sake of simplicity, I'll call the girl in your class Girl A and the one not in your class Girl B. This is simply to make sure I know who you're talking about and you know who I'm talking about.

So, from your first post, I've gathered you like Girl B more. Also, Girl A and Girl B are best friends. I'm just trying to see if I've got everything in order and listing out the various factors.

From your last post, the difficulty is that is was rather undescriptive, meaning you only posted what she said and you said but nothing else. Knowing how you two talked, the body language, etc... is important to know because that alone reveals their answer to your question regardless of what they verbally say to you. From her answer, it's ambiguous, it can mean she may want to go out or that she really doesn't. Without knowing the details as I mentioned above, it's hard to give an accurate answer.

Also, in every school and in work places, people start up rumours. You have to put those aside, let the rumours go about despite how irritating or false they may be because giving into the rumours or going against them is only going to make them more intense and worse for you. For example, a rumour is started that I like pink, so I say that I don't. The people who start the rumours generally twist that around and either keep on accusing me and possibly add in more rumours based off of the one. So, this is future advice, I've found it better and easier to ignore the rumours, let them play out as they almost always tend to simmer down and die out.

[lesher]

"man im still wondering if she likes me...."
Which one did you mean?