Masturbation - Stinging

[tomytinker]

Hi there, I've recently tried "wanking" and the first time it was fine, until about 40 seconds in my Penis started to sting a lot. So, i stopped as it was just making me worry. I tried again yesterday, same thing. Except i kept on for another 20 seconds, still no change.

I'm currently Masturbating in bed, lying down if that has anything too do with it. Some pre-cum is coming out. So, any suggestions? :cool:

[Requin]

I don't see how lying on your bed would make any difference to your masturbation, except that it would make you more relaxed, but that wouldn't cause pain.

What is the stinging like? I'm guessing it wasn't pleasurable. You could try masturbating standing up, but I don't think it will make any difference at all.
To be honest I have no idea why you are getting this pain, so I won't try and make one up just to keep me going.
If you keep masturbating and your still getting this pain, I would recomend going to a doctor, ask him what he thinks.

Also, quick question, How long have you been wanking? Or is this your first time.

[tomytinker]

I've done it 3 times now. But, i do the wanking motion very fast, maybe i should slow it down?:confused:

EDIT: It stings on the head of the Penis, and stings for a good while after i stop

[Requin]

As your not used to it, maybe its just the new experience in doing it, as its a big leap from using it as a urine thing...now it does this. You know?

Maybe your doing it too quickly, try and slow it down a bit. See what happens, and if its still the same, report back. :) Its worth a try

[tomytinker]

Thanks, i'll try

[HelloWorld123456]

maybe your being too aggressive with your penis .. thats all .. but look :

A) Is the stinging good ?
B)Is it before you ejaculate ?
C)Is it hurting like ouch >.< F*** .. ?
D)Do you know the difference between an orgasm and this "pain" ?

****EDIT****

As requin said .. PAIN has to be PAINFUL ..

[Requin]

Adding onto the point above, pain should be exactly that, painful.

An orgasm is a pleasurable experience, very different to pain.

[tomytinker]

It's a very PAINFUL pain. At the tip of my penis. And yes, it's before i cum but pre-cum comes out before it.

[HelloWorld123456]

It's a very PAINFUL pain. At the tip of my penis. And yes, it's before i cum but pre-cum comes out before it. It's the sort of pain when you move you're foreskin and touch the bare penis. That kind of sting. :(

i cant really understand the pain you described .. tough i am uncut .. i dont feel "Pain" when i touch the tip of my penis ..

Look do you know how an orgasm feels ? .. I cant describe my orgasm painful .. It is just good ... Do you know how an orgasm feels ?

[tomytinker]

No, but i SERIOUSLY dought it stings like a b**** on the top of your penis, trust me, this Isn't an orgasm. Oh god this is hard to explain :S

[Requin]

I think what it could be is that your penis itself (not the foreskin) is just sensitive, you've only just started masturbating, so you won't of got used to it yet. So, I think (hope) after a while, it shouldn't be as sensitive. :)

I hope that's what it is.

[HelloWorld123456]

i have used all my ideas tough .. :/

The best thing to do is to consult your doctor, because orgasms are meant to make you feel just great ... You said you dont know how an orgasm feels right ? An orgasm is the feeling you get before you cum .. generally when your about to orgasm like 5 seconds before it you pre-cum (atleast thats what happens to me) .. look dont strain your penis, but .. have you ever continued to pass trough it .. continue jerking while it "hurts" ? what happened if you did ?

[tomytinker]

Well, the second "attempt" i decided that it might be because it's my first time. And before i never really touched/looked indepth that much at my Penis. So, i continued about 20 seconds while it was stinging and for about 5 hours the next day the tip of the penis was sensitive and only stung when my trouser touched it ect ect.

[HelloWorld123456]

maybe it is because you have just started masturbating ... tough i never felt pain neither when masturbating nor when orgasming .. you might wanna check at your doctor .. maybe you have an infection thaats why it hurts .. just go for a check up ... he'll tell you why .. maybe your just too sensitive .. keep us updated on what happens ... always here to help, pm if you need

[Requin]

Hmmmmm. I would suggest making an appointment with your doc. He would be able to tell you what the problem is...if there's any.

[byee]

Internet diagnosis, bleh.

"Stinging"? Look carefully at the tip of your penis where it burns and see if there's a little red area, probably very small, that could be a friction burn. Often, if you aggressively masturbate (esp. w/o lube, and esp. if you're inexperienced), you can rub a bit of that veeery delicate skin off, and it will burn and sting in a way that is disproportionate to the actual bruise.

Put a little vaseline jelly on it for a few days and leave it alone, and change your technique so it's not so aggressive.

[tomytinker]

I think I'll leave it for a while (2-3 days) try again for a while, if it doesn't work then i'll consider going to the doctors, thanks for the help guys :P

:O, my god. There is a small red area. I'll put so Vaseline on it tonight. Thanks man =D

[HelloWorld123456]

OKi i think you ll take dah best option ... try with vaselline jelly next time as said by IAMSAM .. it is a gd lube .. i think (never used any lube xD) ..

update here and tell us what happens


****EDIT****

OH wait vaselline is used as lube not a kind of "Cure my penis jelly" .. do you have anything like .. Sudocream ? .. Stuff that is used for babies skin (since it is very delicate ... and since you have to put it on your penis ..) ?

[tomytinker]

;), i will

[nick]

Are you cut (circumcised) or uncut? If youre uncut it could be that you have a tight foreskin and that's whats causing the pain. You'd probably have to see the doctor about that. Otherwise try and get hold old of some lube and loosen your grip a bit.

[HelloWorld123456]

Are you cut (circumcised) or uncut? If youre uncut it could be that you have a tight foreskin and that's whats causing the pain. You'd probably have to see the doctor about that. Otherwise try and get hold old of some lube and loosen your grip a bit.

man read the post before .. i dont think cut ppl have foreskin .. but you gave a gd advice anyway haha

[Donkey]

This happened to me when I started. After masturbating a bit more, you get used to ejaculation/orgasm and the pain goes.

[HelloWorld123456]

I dont know how can you feel pain from orgasming or wanking .. Did anyone feel pain when wanking ? I never did tough ...

[Donkey]

I dont know how can you feel pain from orgasming or wanking .. Did anyone feel pain when wanking ? I never did tough ...

I think it's just your body getting used to it. Everyone's different.

[tomytinker]

Hopefully this will stop in a week or two ;)

[The Joker]

When I first did it, it stung a bit. Your body will get used to it. Once I decided to get some pleasure from the hot tub, and it stung so bad I told my mom. It will go away in a bit of time.

[david191]

Try using some spit or lube and rub it onto your foreskin.

That could help

[TheStarsShadow]

I think It might be that you have some kind of sope in your dick while attempting to wash it . I did that and it hurt exactly how u are saying:)



hope this helps:D

[alexpop]

are u uncut ??????????

[QuickQuart]

I had this too when I started. Although not nearly as severely as u are describing. It penis probably isn't used to all this attention, so use lots of lube and give it a day or two in between tries. If it carries on more than a month, see a doctor.

[iJoel]

Hmm, I sometimes gets a little stinging sensation on the tip of my penis but thats common every now and then. I haven't looked into it that much.

If you really are feeling just a slight pain because of it, I suggest instead of doing the teqnique your doing right now, just enjoy playing with yourself without using any teqnique at all. I'm sorry I can't really tell you any teqniques because of VT rules.

[matty1781]

you probly going to hard or wank 2 often