Absolutely no self worth =[

[Destiny&Desire]

Hey everyone

I've been feeling really down recently because I have confidence issues, and I feel like I don't deserve anyone's attention.

Recently I saw some friends who I haven't seen in a while, and I got a boyfriend aswell. I know that should make me happy (because they do appreciate me), but I just feel like I can't make myself see the good things that I do. I'm like a pessimist - I know that there are good things about me, but I can't accept what other people tell me. I constantly feel like I'm going to mess up when I talk to people, and that my boyfriend will dump me, even after they've told me that they won't and there's no problem.

I feel like I'm creating problems for myself, because I just have like no self-esteem whatsoever =[
xo

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

I understand what your saying because I am in a similar position...except for the fact that everything is not good in my life...I don't have a boyfriend anymore and I seem to be losing all my friends....but no matter how much someone tells me that things will get better I just can't seem to believe that they will because it seems like one thing after another jsut keeps going wrong.

[CestDan]

I suggest you watch this movie, well actually is a documentary, it name is "The Secret"

If you want the website, it is: www.thesecret.tv

It will help you, it did with me.

[cool person]

Ok I have something to say to all of you..
Destiny&Desire:
That nearly made me laugh, sounds so much like myself. Unfortunately, i can't really help you on that because I'm in the same place myself.

STAYING_STRONG4HIM,
I swear I went to this thread without knowing you had posted on it! I'm really trying not to stalk you, it just seems to keep happening. Us boys are really overrated, that said if you really want more of us around, don't worry you will find the right guy soon :)

CestDan,
Hey, I come to these forums for support and to help people Not to see a bunch of advertising for a scam/fad/waste of time film like the secret. If you believe that saying " I want a million dollars" will get you a million dollars, good for you. But pease keep your belief to yourself.

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

I don't think your a stalker cool_person...and I think your really nice...

[Destiny&Desire]

It makes me feel a bit better knowing that I'm not the only one who feels like this, cool_person =P lol

...is it worth me asking what the secret is? (a bit off-topic to this thread, but i can't be bothered clicking on the link lol)

[Donkey]

Hello there!

You are most certainly not the only person who feels like this. I get like this sometimes too :P well very regularly actually. People who talk to me lots will know that.

What you are experiencing is down to the new hormones released when you are going through puberty. They make you feel these kind of emotions, and it is extremely common for teenagers to feel this way :)

[cool person]

It is basically a film about how thinking positive thought brings you what you want...repeating "I want a million dollars." will bring a million dollars... basically its stupid

[Triceratops]

I think many of us experience the exact same feelings as you do.

Hun, you ARE worth so much more than you think you are and even the people around you think you're special too! It's time to ignore those evil thoughts coming into your head as they are so different from reality. You just have to believe it, everyone in the world is special, so makes you not?

It sounds like yo have wonderful friends and boyfriend. And I think it's time you focused on the things you are good at rather than worrying whether you're going to mess up because you won't, trust me. You have everything you need, you are a great person and these nasty feelings and emotions are stopping you from seeing the truth.

I hope you feel better soon, take care. <3