Girl A and Girl B

[MasterCujo]

Sry guys, deletin everything I put on this site. Can't have people I know findin it!

[MasterCujo]

Yea. The only thing is, I do kinda like girl B who I know is interested, and I wondered if I should ask her out because I know the probable answer. I know I do like A more, but I have known her longer and for all I know, if I go out with girl B, I might end up liking B more.

[Glasgow]

Ya dude. Nobody can tell you what to do. Its your decision

[The.Cody]

I like girl A. She sounds cool. Girl B could be your back up. You know that she likes you. But you can see if girl A does. Buy her some candy, they always like candy. And flirt around with her. If she doesn't send those back then she probably does not like you. Then I would go for girl B.

[MasterCujo]

Yea, I gues I did kinda know I should go for A all along, but I don't even know how to flirt. I am not really sheltered, I do tons of stuff out of the house, but it is still so embarressing. I need to know how to send the vibe that I'm intersted. I sometimes look back and realize that something I did make it look like i am not interested, and made it look like i was only here as a friend. I need to figure out what to do to let her know I want to be with her. Basicly, I need flirting lessons. Wow. I guess I am sheltered. HELP!!

PS. thx for responding so quickly, I really needed advice quickly

[WelshLad]

Trust me, guys don't know how to flirt. If they do it goes wrong. (See Friends - Episode when Ross tries to flirt with the pizza girl).
Before making a decision, you have to find out if girl A like you. Ask through one of her friends, like girl Bs friend did.
Someone said use girl B as a back up. Perosnally, if I had any respect for girls, I wouldn't do that. It's not fair on them. But if girl A isn't interested, see how things go with girl B.

[ScotsGirl]

}](See Friends - Episode when Ross tries to flirt with the pizza girl).


Friends rocks!! :o :D


ROFL!!! :D That was a hilarious episode! :D hehehe :P

Anyway, lol :P

Okay, the question here is who do you like better?

I completely agree! :D
I also agree with the fact that you shouldnt keep the other girl on the sidelines for 'back-up' :?

As for letting her know you like her more than a friend, you could try what Lloyd said, about checking with her friends first.
Im not sure I completely understand when you say you do somethings that made her jsut think you want to be friends, what kind of things?

How much do you actually see of each other? Do you have her number or anything?

As for flirting with her, just relax, be yourself, if youre already good friends then she must like you in some way. ;)
You could try making lots of eye contact with her, even when youre just having a normal conversation, keep up with the eye contact. :D
And of course, complements are always good. :D What she is wearing, how her hair is. Complements show that you are paying attention ;)
However, make sure they are genuine complements, dont just say something for the sake of it, say it because you really mean it.
Think about what you do for her as a friend, what kind of things does she expect from you being her friend. Then think about what kind of things she may expect a bf or someone who is more than just a friend to do. Im sure you will come up with plenty of ways you can show her you like her.
If it doesnt do anything else, it might jsut make your friendship stronger :D.
Like I said, jsut relax and open up to her a bit more. ;)

Goodluck! :D
xxx

[BeautyFromPain]

}](See Friends - Episode when Ross tries to flirt with the pizza girl).


Friends rocks!! :o :D


ROFL!!! :D That was a hilarious episode! :D hehehe :P

Anyway, lol :P

Okay, the question here is who do you like better?

I completely agree! :D
I also agree with the fact that you shouldnt keep the other girl on the sidelines for 'back-up' :?

As for letting her know you like her more than a friend, you could try what Lloyd said, about checking with her friends first.
Im not sure I completely understand when you say you do somethings that made her jsut think you want to be friends, what kind of things?

How much do you actually see of each other? Do you have her number or anything?

As for flirting with her, just relax, be yourself, if youre already good friends then she must like you in some way. ;)
You could try making lots of eye contact with her, even when youre just having a normal conversation, keep up with the eye contact. :D
And of course, complements are always good. :D What she is wearing, how her hair is. Complements show that you are paying attention ;)
However, make sure they are genuine complements, dont just say something for the sake of it, say it because you really mean it.
Think about what you do for her as a friend, what kind of things does she expect from you being her friend. Then think about what kind of things she may expect a bf or someone who is more than just a friend to do. Im sure you will come up with plenty of ways you can show her you like her.
If it doesnt do anything else, it might jsut make your friendship stronger :D.
Like I said, jsut relax and open up to her a bit more. ;)

Goodluck! :D
xxx

i agree with that..thats very good advice.

[MasterCujo]

ok. i am gunna ask one of her friends. Ill udate on results and what happens.

[WelshLad]

cool. bonne chance

[BeautyFromPain]

good luck

[WelshLad]

any news?

[MasterCujo]

Not yet. Every time I sign on (which is not as often as usual. I have wresting((Ill beat the crap out of you if you get me mad)) from end of school to five thirty, then I always have something like piano lesson, or piano with jazz band, or a wrestling tournament to keap me busy) Her friend ends up bein away. I can't ask her in school because they are always together.