another gay question.

[justwondering1995]

Well sorry for another one of these "am i gay" questions but... Every now and then i go into these phases. at one phase i act gay, and at the other all i think about is girls. but they gay ones are always longer and more arousing. I don't want to be gay (no offense gays) because if i do my dad will kick me out, and i will get jumped at school, and i think its just nasty. will these phases go away as i get older? please help, don't close it so fast!

[Sceneboy612]

Ok, you might be on your way to becoming gay, but for now, i would consider you Bisexual. the reason that you might end up gay is because you say that you like the gay fantasies more than the straight, and you could be gay and curious "if you know what i mean."

But if you are worried about being jumped at school and kicked out of your house, you could just not tell anyone about it, because there is nothing that says you MUST TELL THEM that you are gay or bi.

And, try not to f*** with your feelings if you are gay, i did... and it was a very bad idea, i ended up very depressed and almost lost everything i had. so if you are gay... dont hate yourself for it, accept it and try to get over what people might think of your sexuality

[justwondering1995]

thanks

[Sceneboy612]

Ya, sure anything... If you need anything else just PM me.

And even if you are gay, i just told someone today that i was, it was kinda awkward, but not as bad as i thought it would be.

[Tenke-kun]

I really agree with Scene boy.
im gay, im not sure if my perents know, and then my friends and my sister and her friends know. all though, we both lice in COMPLETELY diferent place.

People here were accepting, but again the location thingy.

one of my BIGGEST pet peeve's is people that thing being gay is wrong.

i read soewhere, and a bi friend agrees that NOONE is 100% straight, we bet tthat every body hs that period of wondering what it'd be like to find the same sex arousing. it should pass, but yeah, again i agree with Scene boy, you;re curios/ bi.
I hoped it was a little help, but its really just a feeling on the subject at hand.

[awkward silence]

i think that what your talking about is just plain old puberty. everything you are talking about is just normal feelings that everyone has. just dont worry about it. and do what makes you most happy and everything will be find.

[Oblivion]

:arrow: Teen Sexuality

[L]

you never really know if you are or not, but by the end of puberty you should have figured it all out. instead of hateing it, enjoy it while you can. in most cases it just fades away.

ps. kicked out of the house!? your 14 rite? how homofobic could your dad get?

[pcd31]

I'm not sure about other schools but at my school there's a recent fad of pretending to be gay jokingly just to make things awkward for another person. Nobody means it, I'm sure, but I'm always the one that takes things too far. I just love doing it because it's unexpected and everyone has the funniest reactions.

[aquaman246]

I know wat u mean about school, i think ur pretty much bisexual, with a little more tendancy to males

[HelloWorld123456]

Man look puberty makes you do freaky things .. From what i understood you may be bi or just very curious .. By the end of puberty youll figure it out ..

Or you could try to experiment with both sexes and figure out which you like .. didnt like .. or maybe you just like both ..

And if youre gay .. dont hate yourself .. everybody got his/hers sexuality ... example I am straight but i am very curious ..

[nick]

Nobody can tell you whether you are bi, gay or straight - if such things exist. Really its more of a sliding scale anyway and not that many people are really bang up against either the fully straight or fully gay end.

Over a period of time, as the other guys have said, it will become more clear to you what your own sexuality is. In the mean time don't do anything your not comfortable with and try to keep an open mind and be happy however you are. Its tough if you have to worry about parent's reactions and stuff like that, but unless your a real flamer, which it doesnt sound like, there's no reason why they need know.

[jeforey3]

i think im going through what you are

[jocklin]

hey how old r u add me please im13

[nell_Tur]

i'm gay ... and i know how you feel... in this society people does not agree us to be a normal person... it is really hurt...

[sam i am]

i came out and the whole 8th grade knew i was bi some people don't talk to me any more but those people that don't talk to me are the people i don't like to talk to any way....all im saying here is it depends on how ur personally is and how the people in the school like u for u and don't treat u different if ur gay or bi.
I think u maybe becoming bi or it could be ur hormones since ur going through puberty. And if ur bi or gay don't beat ur self about it and don't even think about killing ur self or doing self harm.. well if u wanna talk or need help message me

[ErykaInspire.]

My parents are both homophobic and everytime a "gay" discussion comes up, I defend the target. My parents have their doubts about me saying i'm straight(although I am curious). But I think you and I are at the SAME exact problem.
I think about guys WAY more than girls. and there's only one girl that I DO think about. My best friend Nikki. But she's told me that if she were to be bi/les then it'd be with me.
We hold hands and everything, but idk.

anyways, I think you just shouldn't tell anyone except someone you can trust ENTIRELY, like I have. It helps take the stress off of you.

[bmanster]

i think im at the same stage u are
i dont know for sure i support gay right and have had pleanty of gf's and idk
guys just arouse me etc
but i like women all at the same time
idk wat to do admit im Bisexual or just to say im strait
im so confussed
any help plz