devilsheep
April 29th, 2009, 05:20 PM
Okay so currently im seeing this girl, and we fool around and stuff and both like eachother. She likes me and wants to date me, but I just don't want a girlfriend. Right now were just friends with benefits, but were also very close and talk to eachother on msn every day.
Ive recently had thoughts of stoppin seeing her, because essentially all I'm doing is leading her on and making the relationship even more like were dating. I know I'm not gonna date her, because I just dont want a girlfriend. I've gotten too deep into this relationship, but it was not my intention to do so. I never meant to get so involved, but now it's too late and I need to do something.
How would I go about telling her that i think it would be best if we stopped seeing eachother so often and hooking up, because I feel bad because im not gonna date her. I've kinda left her without an answer about the whole thing
I wanna continue talking to her and being her friend, but I just dont wanna hook up with her anymore and lead her on anymore because I fear it will hurt her in the long run..
Help?
Okay well I told her about my feelings, and shes quite upset. Shes just soaking it in right now so I dunno whats goin on wit her.
I did it for her own good though. I dont think its fair for her to continue seeing me and hooking up and doing intimate things with me if im not going to date her...because I know she was waitin for me to ask her out.
Did i do the right thing?
Ive recently had thoughts of stoppin seeing her, because essentially all I'm doing is leading her on and making the relationship even more like were dating. I know I'm not gonna date her, because I just dont want a girlfriend. I've gotten too deep into this relationship, but it was not my intention to do so. I never meant to get so involved, but now it's too late and I need to do something.
How would I go about telling her that i think it would be best if we stopped seeing eachother so often and hooking up, because I feel bad because im not gonna date her. I've kinda left her without an answer about the whole thing
I wanna continue talking to her and being her friend, but I just dont wanna hook up with her anymore and lead her on anymore because I fear it will hurt her in the long run..
Help?
Okay well I told her about my feelings, and shes quite upset. Shes just soaking it in right now so I dunno whats goin on wit her.
I did it for her own good though. I dont think its fair for her to continue seeing me and hooking up and doing intimate things with me if im not going to date her...because I know she was waitin for me to ask her out.
Did i do the right thing?