Older friend wants me to jerk it with him

[Rolla7]

I have a 16 year old friend. During Spring Break, he asked me via text if I'd jerk it with him. Now I know this kind of stuff is normal, and I know he's serious. He said he thinks he's a little curious. Admittedly, I am too. So what I'd like to know is what kind of stuff is okay to do at these kinds of things. We've already agreed on circle jerking and mutual masturbation. I know a lot of it depends on personal preference, but what would be some general guidelines?

P.S. I'm new, but none of that "Ur gay" or "Homo" crap please. I just want some honest tips.

[LUCKY555]

well are you going to do it?....and if you feel uncomfortable dont touch him....or let him touch you....but you are right it is normal and it is personal preference...but if you want to do it it is really fun.

[skinny_white_boy]

well first how old are you?

[Rolla7]

I'm only nine months younger. I would be in his class if it weren't for the way my birthdate fell.

[skinny_white_boy]

well if ur curious then give it a shot it cant hurt

[xian]

just be careful. and jack like you normally would.

[The Joker]

Well, I was thinking he was older by a lot, which could have been bad.

You aren't too far apart, so it should be OK, as long as YOU actually want to do it.

[Aneklusmos]

well first off, on VT you wont find any of that "Ur gay" or "Homo" stuff. thats a serious thing here and could result in banning.

moving on!

go for it. nine months is almost nothing in reality. when your in school the grades make the smallest age differential enormous by putting you in different grades. im best friends with an eight grader and the only reason im in 7th is cause i was born like a month later than he. anyways, go for it. just dont do anything your uncomfortable with

[marktheman]

My best friend is 16 and we masturbate each other. If both you guys want to do it then theres nothing wrong with it.

[Schon]

I'm pretty curious, i wouldn't mind to try it sometime. But I'm kinda embarrassed about myself.

[Tenke-kun]

I'm pretty curious, i wouldn't mind to try it sometime. But I'm kinda embarrassed about myself.

im with you here, but i not really all that curiosy, but i would really like to try it atleast once..

[MykeSoBe]

I would go for it, really! If you've been wanting to for a long time, and you were sort of shy, then now is the chance!

[youngbrown7]

i would go for it, i used to do it when i was around 13 all we did was masturbate to gather not touch each other. but if u fell comfortable with it than go for it. if u start not felling ok than just tell him your not felling comfortable and stop. (by the way it was kind of fun wish i still did it.:))

[Toxicaligator]

You only live once so go for it, wouldn't be the end of the world. Take every safe opportunity you can.

[L]

go for it. the age differnce really is nothing huge, and if you want to, whats to stop you?

ps. no your gay or homo crap? i've never seen any of that here.

[mrcoffeshop]

well i have jerkked with friends and its great and just recently my griend jerked me off! WOAHHH! THAT FELT GREAT i mean i know it sounds uncomfortable but i had a giant orgasm! i cumed a bunch!!!and he also sucked my dick so ya idk its up to u but it is fun and it feels great...PM me with any questions

[aquaman246]

Just do wat u r comfortable doing. Don't let him do anything ur uncomfortable doing and just tell him to stop

[nick]

It feels way better when someone else does it for you, so if you're comfortable about it why not? Just experiment and do whatever feels right & is enjoyable for you.

[Silent]

Ive personally have experimented with another guy and I think its fine to do with other guys just don't go out of your comfort zone.Also it can be really fun :)

[jeforey3]

if it was me being asked, would go for it

[cool person]

Apsolutely nothing the matter with a bit of experimentation.

It doesn't mean you are gay, just curious.

My adivce is that if you want to, go for it

[mustang]

like someone els said you wont get any of that gay homo crap on here so you dont woy about that and it is only 9 months so go for it i have doe it its a realy fun thing aslong s you boath agree to it and you boath are comftable with it

[Bluearmy]

Well if I was in your situation, I would say no. But that is me, and this is you. If you are feeling unsure about this, maybe you need to just take a long moment and think about it. Consider everything that could go wrong, and if you still want to afterwords, then you shouldn't feel uncomfortable. But if you still do, consider that you two are going to probably be very horny while doing this; and from what I know, people tend to not think with the head that has a face on it when they are horny. Meaning that he might try to do something that you absolutely don't want too.. It can become a very awkward moment. Even more so if it occurs at one of his places, like his house or something.


UR GAY, HOMO?!

Those type of words are not allowed here at VT in that context. It's some kind of new thing where everybody's ideals are accepted or something. (And by everybody's ideals, I mean liberal ideals ..but that is besides the point.) In the future, don't hesitate to post anything. These people are here to help you out....

[Giles]

i'd say go for it... just be careful.

Also the age difference is nothing really... 9 months nothing at all.

[underwear34]

if you feel comfortable with in then there is no harm

[MichaelAdams1993]

As everyone else has been saying.

Nine months is really nothing at all, from the sounds of it you two are pretty much close enough to be those kids who have their bestfriends in the same grade same age since like preschool, except your birthday caused you to go in a different grade. Its not a big deal and as long as you remember to stay in your comfort zone and you don't do anything by force I see nothing wrong with it.

[sunsings]

well if ur curious then give it a shot it cant hurt

umm just wanted to say that it could hurt, something could go wrong or if u guys are good friends it could tottaly ruin ur relationship with him.... in the end its up to u but be careful

[JackOfClubs]

If you want to, go ahead. If you don't, then don't. Simple.

[mosaic.]

Woo! I'd go for it! Nothing beats a little healthy experimentation.

; )

[ViciousScheme]

I don't know, I wouldn't because once I "experimented" with one of my old friends, notice how I said "old" because now we never hang out because it gets too awkward to talk to eachother or even play a dang video-game. That kind of stuff can seriously mess with relationships.

[Antares]

Alright, this has had a lot of answers and has been bumped.

Thread :locked: