Advice Please?

[firecracker95]

Well here's the deal, when i was younger, like four or five, my cousin would always try to convince me into doing sexual things. Like I would always ask him to play house with me(i was too young to be afraid) and he would say that the only way he would play would be if we were married and therefore had to do the things couples would do. I always refused but one day he told me he had candy but to get it I had to follow him into the woods. Then he told me to close my eyes and tricked me into giving him oral, well not really, i pulled back as soon as I realized. I was terrified.
My point is that I think this might be the reason that I became so interested in sex at a very early age. By the time I was five or six i was experimenting with masturbation. Do you think him trying that on me caused me to do this so early? I'm not sure because I also hit puberty pretty early in the 3rd grade. Also up until about a year ago I always hated myself because i thought what I was doing was discusting and not normal.

Is this totally abnormal?:confused:

[Lady_Chaos]

I don't think so, but what your cousin did is WRONG. I've been... treated... badly by my cousin before, but that was last year and it was a very horrible experience (If people pull my hair I freak out cause that's what he did to me...). I probably would have been scarred for life if my cousin had done that to me at that age. I don't know that what your cousin did caused you to be interested in sexual things, but it may have had some effect on you in that manner. But its more likely that it was caused by the rush of hormones that comes with puberty, since you started it in 3rd grade, it's a pretty good explanation.

Hope that helped =)

[Viral Death]

I have had about the same thing happen to me. I learned to control it by doing hobbies. There is nothing wrong with you!

[Truth]

I'm sorry to hear that your cousin did that. :/. He's a loser. But, no, masturbation at any age is normal. Don't hate yourself! And, there's a difference between sex and masturbation. =x

[AllThatIsLeft]

People who get abused at a early tend to be more curious or interested in sexual stuff earlier than the rest of the kids.

Example: Me.

There isn't anything wrong with you darling.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

A lot of kids experiment with masturbation at an early age, regardless of whether they were exposed to sex or not. There is even evidence of babies touching themselves in the womb. Its a natural urge and some start earlier than others. Like Paula said, some kids who are abused may become interested at an earlier age, because the exposure can make you wonder what the whole thing is about. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, though.

You are very normal, don't let this be a reason to hate or be disgusted at yourself. Lord knows we find enough reasons to dislike ourselves already, in this society. :)

[Charleigh]

my friends uncle tried to trick her into putting her hand down his shorts, she was 7 and he told her that there was a friendly catterpillar in his shorts, obiously you know what it is...

[iceyfresh]

Yea its normal to experiment at an early age.:D

[Aves]

Don't worry it's normal to experiment at an early age. But your cousin was WAY WRONG!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads. This one is nearly 4 months old.
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